@Vermillion-Rx yep had this with my last LTR. Apparently I was too opinionated. But I just said so you want me to agree with everything you say?

She was a lawyer with dyed pink/grey hair. Should have seen that coming

Feminist

Believed in trans rights Had two cats

My fault.

There situations where it wasn’t even necessarily advice asked or whatever.

1 - she asked me if I would sleep with a trans woman. Firstly weird to ask your partner if you’d sleep with someone else. Knowing of what I know of her it wasn’t an innocent question and there was a right answer. Did I care fuck no.

2 - she would tell me about situations like not speaking to her dad because her mum abused her and her sister when they were younger. I gave the dads side purely to help undertand his pov of being between a rock and a hard place and she felt I was taking sides. That’s how they see things.

3 - similar situation went out with her married couple friends for a drink. They brought up this crazy lesbian friend they now have. She was a slut and her husband was a Christian version. All the girls knew it wasn’t going to work out and they told her nothing. Wasn’t their place apparently. They divorced, she went insane ( literally to an asylum) and now is a lesbian. I just said it’s your duty as friends to tell your friends the truth and it would have saved her potentially alot of issues. Also during this drinks her friend brought up aj and how she’d climb him ( in front of her husband) I said it’s cos he’s muscular and they denied that. Showed them a picture of Andy Ruiz jr ( fat boxer) and he wasn’t good looking cos of his face. And I said yes because he’s fat .. couldn’t see where I was coming from, body positivity and all that.. in fact that same night she interacted with these gang of kids and I can’t remember what she said but it annoyed me because If I did that she’d flip.

I kept seeing her after that stupidly.

We broke up got back together. Didn’t have sex for 1-2 months but did everything else.

Funnily enough the straw that broke the camels back was when I was in a pickle and she said I’m sorry but a lot of burden on me, can you talk to your friends about this. I wouldn’t do that to her. This coupled with the lack of sex and her being a prior rape victim just cba.

Looking back it was dumb to even get with her. She was a good lay but usual stuff of lovebombing, making me feel great then the opposite. Not falling for that again.