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MentORPHEUS

6 hours ago  The Public Square

@Vermillion-Rx (that posted prematurely.) ...Try, try again with other friends or altogether new people.

    

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MentORPHEUS

6 hours ago  The Public Square

@Vermillion-Rx Sounds like you have a pretty healthy perspective on the whole thing, though maintaining it through certain social events that go off the rails can still be challenging.

I grew up somewhat socially inept/aspie, coming of age in the mid 80s. There were NO resources like you have available to you today On that basis, I can say you'll get this.

As for the turncoat friend, that kind of shit can happen when pussy is involved, but put it into the perspective of reflecting badly on him, not on you. Try

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Vermillion-Rx

7 hours ago  The Public Square

@coolsocks00 it wasn't like this before. I used to love going

Ironically it wasn't even the ex plate that ruined it for me it was my dumbass blue pill friend that fucked me over there and got people to turn on me. I made a mild reference of something they said to each other, she got mad at him, and then he fucked me over with the entirety of my group because he practices hoes before bros even though I was the one seeing her and he was her acquaintance at best

I never had such a negative opinion of going until that. Ironically none of the girls I've actually fucked are the ones causing me any direct problems.

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I guess my long term goals with this is just overcoming social deficits in autism, not just fucking hoes.

I've been using this place to overcome life long social issues for me and to a massive extent it healed a lot of past pain from having grown up on the spectrum.

But I am letting my short term problems with some people deteriorate me. I just want to feel like I'm socially valuable enough and I don't think I have all the skills I need yet, but maybe there are other ways for me to get those without relying on this

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Vermillion-Rx

about a day ago  The Public Square

I don't know how I lost my mojo.

I got a lot of it back tonight. Randoms were asking me to dance again tonight, that hasn't happened in a while. And some girls were pursuing me kind of more aggressively than normal again, but I couldn't get a good read on their interest other than that I'm getting that back

Saw ex plate with (another) new guy again, glad I dropped her she's just taking a train at this point it seems like. I hate when she shows up at like midnight. I'm so glad when she's not there and then bam she's two feet away from me literally and it's like fuck, piss off I don't want to be near you but here you are next to me

I'm getting my mojo back but fuck this seems like an uphill battle. When I'm not out in binge drinking again at home and getting back into a video gaming spell

I don't know what the fuck happened to me. I think these past two FWB and shit and fake shallow acquaintances fucking me over figuratively in the ass this month just emotionally pillaged me

I'm trying like fuck to get it back but I'm succumbing to so many vices at home and my conversation skills have really plummeted even from last year when my game was arguably much less experienced

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Vermillion-Rx

2 days ago  The Public Square

@Jocbro holy fuck that's much better

Delete photos two and three

I also think photo 7 is unecessary. Flexing but also you have another ripped guy in there. I just don't think you need side by sides with other ripped buddies.

I still think a photo holding the dog from 9 would be a lot better than just simply having the dog sitting by itself

I think if you took out 2, 3, and 7, you'd have a solid profile.

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Vermillion-Rx

3 days ago  The Public Square

@diablo369 I'm pretty certain my profiles are all algorithmically fucked from being inactive for as long as they were but before that I got decent match rates with mediocre photos

I actually didn't have group photos at all, but if you have photos with others, it shouldn't be with one other guy.

Women look at it and if they like your guy friend more it fucks you

Imagine a woman liking your photos and she has her hypergamous senses being activated seeing you and your buddy side by side.

That shit won't help you if she thinks he could be better

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Whenever I see a girl in a photo side by side with another girl who's more my type I lose interest. Id rather be with her. That's why I don't side by side photos with other men

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Vermillion-Rx

3 days ago  The Public Square

@Jocbro keep the one of you in the water with whoever that is

Delete the other two gym bro buddy pics

You don't need two other men in the shots with you

Invest in new social photos. Like look like a sociable guy having a good time in a regular social setting

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Vermillion-Rx

3 days ago  The Public Square

@Jocbro for starters you could also have a pic of you holding the smaller dog (maybe even the bigger one but that might look awkward), have that as your leading photo

I have heard such photos are like cocaine to women.

Get a couple of social photos in there that aren't about advertising your ripped friends too. That can backfire.

Get a another hobby photo in there.

I think you might be going to hard on that look how good I look for fucking and not enough having qualities on display. That can sometimes fuck you

Also, you could be getting screwed by the algorithm if you've had your profile for a while

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MentORPHEUS

6 days ago  The Public Square

@Vermillion-Rx Life is long and varied, and the more adventurous and less formulaically you live it, the greater opportunities come but with the flip side of greater potential downswings. Three years ago I had a house and a thriving business. Long story short Covid lockdowns erased a lot of what I'd spent decades building up. Now I'm in my mid 50s "starting over" on an off grid ranch property in the Mojave desert. I own several vacant parcels of land that I'm finally getting around to improving to market and sell. I could get down on myself and my situation but what is the use? In many ways this is what I wanted as I struggled with work and city life. It's on myself to make this life a dream instead of a nightmare.

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carnold03

about a week ago  The Public Square

@Vermillion-Rx

I'm finally kind of able to start crying it out for the shit I've been going through the past couple months.

Lot of stuff to let go of. Ready to start fresh again out there. New friends, new prospects. Lost a lot of both out of my circle the last couple months

Just been a massive growing pain and lesson-learning experience. Could use any words of encouraging going into this week and onward almost entirely fresh

Bro.

Bro...

You can do it.

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