2y ago The Hub

Was out with a chick on Sunday and she was getting touchy. Had the instinctive convos flowing as well. Went out today and felt the complete opposite. I was just passively listening and not able to joke, or talk about stuff that's not serious. It was something on the inside that felt lacking. How to keep up the not giving a F and taking things seriously attitude.

This sounds weird but when I work out, I'm really low energy for the rest of the day. My instinctive humor, on-the-fly attitude is all gone. Again, it might not even be correlated but yea, today I couldn't even make a move, neither did she, women sense these sorts of things I guess.

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justaskingstuff

2y ago The Hub

@TiberiusBravo87 True, you can't beat proper food. But getting in 150-160 gms becomes a little tough that way. Hence a protein powder seems like a convenient option

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justaskingstuff

2y ago The Hub

Uni student here, where can I get good whey protein at an affordable price?

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justaskingstuff

2y ago The Hub

Is there a voice lobby someone can hop on into for a few minutes?

carnold03

2y ago The Hub

@NeoSpartan

@justaskingstuff If you have covid tell her you have covid. Keep the conversation going by asking her questions about herself and working in impressive shit about yourself. Throw in some flirts, but go light on them. Ask her out once you don't have covid anymore.

What makes you think her eagerness dropped? She probably wouldn't have contacted you if she wasn't interested.

If you can find her father, punch him in the dick repeatedly as @carnold03 suggested. This will lock in her attraction for you permanently.

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carnold03

2y ago The Hub

@justaskingstuff

This chick I talked to on Christmas. How do I steer the conversation since she initiated but then the eagerness drops? Or am I assuming attraction which isn't there. PS: Can't go out since I've got covid.

It's probably time that you increase your Vitamin B3, if you're an otherwise healthy adult who somehow managed to get themselves infected with the Kung Flu you might not be eating enough fish. Consider getting yourself Cod Liver Oil pills to supplement whatever multivitamin you might be currently taking, or start.

@Chantfire is absolutely correct. The best way to avoid blundering with texting is to keep it to a minimal, or better yet send her mixed messages. Limit your interactions with her to when you're talking over the line, asking her out.

In future, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, save yourself a search and give this scribed link a gander.

2y ago The Hub

This chick I talked to on Christmas. How do I steer the conversation since she initiated but then the eagerness drops? Or am I assuming attraction which isn't there. PS: Can't go out since I've got covid.

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justaskingstuff

2y ago The Hub

Should I write a poem for this girl I like or is it putting her up on a pedestal

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justaskingstuff

2y ago The Hub

Catching up/Texting a chick. Going with the catching up formalities right now but I don't like how slow this convo is going, how do I tune it up?

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justaskingstuff

2y ago The Hub

@NeoSpartan True. I'm trying to implement stoicism and what not to see if it helps my social skills in any way. It mostly does the job when I'm alone with my thoughts. Other times when you gotta actually talk to people AND maintain frame, I fail like 90% of the times.

Seriously considering TRT. Want that feeling you get after a squat PR to last throughout the day.

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