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@Typo-MAGAshiv I'm not sure how many refugees ended on your soil since Trump spoke to the South African president. If you observe the numbers from the time the media was covering this heavily you'd realize the number of refugees has dropped significantly. Plus America is the one putting some South African farmers out of work by providing food aid that messing with the country's supply and demand.

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@Typo-MAGAshiv the song emerged during the anti-apartheid resistance in South Africa's townships in the late 1980s. It was widely sung and popularized at a mass rally following the murder of South African Communist Party leader Chris Hani. The videos you saw was probably Julius Malema and his political party of the Economic Freedom Fighters, they sang the song during legal battles over whether it constitutes hate speech or protected free political expression. The song became popular because white farmer were abusing and killing their black workers during apartheid. Subsequent the murder of Chris Hani made it even more popular.

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I think the media blew the situation out of proportion.

The lamestream legacy media over here hasn't mentioned it at all, except to flounce around and wail when actual refugees of the violence were admitted to the US. They were white, and we can't allow that!

As for "blown out of proportion", I've seen footage of stadiums full of black South Africans chanting "kill the farmer! Kill the Boer!" and making gunshot sounds as they pantomime shooting them.

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Yeah, it's mainly the Zulus who are gathering into mobs. They claim that illegal immigrants commit crimes and we can't track them. They've been multiple cases of school children being poisoned and most of the incidents were apparently from foods sold by Pakistanis and other illegal immigrants store owners.

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@Typo-MAGAshiv I i haven't witnessed the hard treatment towards white folks myself but I've seen some cases on the news. I think the media blew the situation out of proportion.

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South Africa is awesome

...unless you're white, from much of what I've heard and seen in recent years.

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@Bozza South Africa is awesome, the weather is awesome. Lots of fruits, veggies, and livestock. Corruption, crime, here there, and remnants of a collapsed apartheid goverment. Alien conspiracies in the Drakensberg Mountains, South Africa also holds the largest concentration of ancient human ancestral remains in the world. It also possess some of the best wine and beer in my opinion, there's lots of spots to go for vacation. There's lots of buried gold yet to be discovered all around the Kruger. South Africa is pretty cool.

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@Chantfire Many congratulations. Its life's biggest adventure.

Expect the mother's personality to permanently change in some ways.

A mother is the greatest asset a small child can have. This is the time in life to support her, so she can do a job you could do if you had to but she can actually do easier, with more joy and probably better at first.

Encourage breast feeding, it really is on balance less hassle for all involved, particularly in the early stages, and a better result.

Women get very risk adverse and micro management obsessed about their babies. Accept this is natural but also be the male energy that complements this by simplifying and encouraging that all will be well. It really makes just about no difference if you feed on demand or on schedule (personally I would say on demand but it won't make your kid a loveless loner if you do it on schedule). If you put one or two blankets on the baby or have a rucksack carrier or a push chair, its all the same. I like to tell the story of my brother and his wife getting their first baby. They both have PHDs, they are professional academics. They could not understand why the baby was behaving like it was too hot when the thermometer reading suggested it needed another blanket. Smart people behaving dumb. Baby has internal thermometer, read it. Humanity survived OK before thermometers were invented.

The big secret to raising good kids is that there isn't one. Kids are programmed to develop well by themselves, provided they get enough love and care. It only needs to be enough, they do the rest naturally. Too much done anxiously is actually a worse result than a B grade effort done happily and confidently. What are you teaching the kid? -That "the world is a big scary place you have to be perfectly set up and protected to handle" or "its a cool place, go explore. I will tell you what to avoid. You will soon learn what happens if you don't listen to my advice and the good stuff is all yours". Helicopter parenting is for fuckwits who deserve a Darwin prize. We learn and grow strong by fucking about and finding out while a parent watches gradually less and less.

There are always hand me down clothes and toys to be had. Kids grow out of them, then you hand them down again. Spend your money on something better. Put it in an account for the kid if you like but don't waste it on gadgets and clothes unless they really are game changers.

Playing in the dirt is far better for them than playing with a screen or a perfectly created toy that leads them in learning. Kids will be directed in learning all through their education. Kids' TV is created to hold their attention first, so the TV company can advertise shit to the mother, then educate a little second. Its not really much use except as a substitute to having something better to do. Let them learn to be interesting by being bored and going to discover what they like.

Find out what they like and foster it, don't worry, it will probably not be what you know. Its a great opportunity to learn something new. You will grow too.

When its hard, remember it will all be over soon and then you will miss it.

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@Chantfire congrats man!

My top tip for the next little while is breastfeeding.

It's FAR better for the child, and its FAR better for the sanity of the parents.

If your wife finds it tricky, encourage her to stick with it. It really makes the nights easier. The baby sleeps better, and so do the parents as a result.

My advice? enjoy this magical time. Prepare yourself for a 'new love'. This is really what its all about. you will never love anyone the way you love this new human.

It took me a while to fall in love with my children. I think that's how it is with the father. but this is a love that will last all your life. it is the meaning of life.

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what made you think I was in India?

Early-onset Alzheimer's, I guess.

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