Comfortable Worldview.

@Chantfire

I just thought all man's default setting was to lead a relationship (heterosexuals).

Too many of us (myself included) are lazy by default and usually just take a "whatever" approach, until we feel the need to react to something we don't like.

Before I unplugged, I was steeped in feminist conditioning to include buying into that "equal partners" crap. Which of course meant the wife was in charge.

A ship can only have one captain, and if it's not you, it's her.

@Typo-MAGAshiv oh yeah for sure, I think I didn't pay too much attention to that. I just thought all man's default setting was to lead a relationship (heterosexuals).

@Chantfire

Several years ago I ran across an article about this: it’s not really new. As I recall, a couple was getting married, and his vows were basically to worship the ground she walked on and constantly grovel before her “Divine Feminine Energy” or some such tripe. When he referred to himself in the first person he used a lowercase i, and when he referred to her he capitalized the word You.

It was nauseating. You can be certain that when she divorces him, she will play the damsel card for all it’s worth, though. I’m sure she’ll tell everybody that he was domineering.

It’s hard to feel sorry for a guy like that.

@Chantfire

Apparently there's a thing called Female Lead Relationships

If you've ever read Athol Kay, Rian Stone, and other influential MRP figures, you'd know that if the man isn't leading, then the woman is by default.

@Chantfire

TBH with you, No.

Probably because I have spent so many years of my life being everything to everyone, except myself.

I don't know who I am because of it. I have tried to lean more into stepping back from cleaning up the mess.

@Chantfire 1) that is an example of the rap I hate. It sucks.

2) Biz Markie imparted an important life lesson. That "Apache" fellow was just blathering.

@Chantfire it's 2 pairs of scissors, fucking duh. Have some vcards.

@Vermillion-Rx @Chantfire Picture: 2 scissors, scissoring Trying to get laid in Portland but all the women be like

@throwaway_old_guy have you figured out what to do with your life?