@deeplydisturbed my name is a tool reference. Nice pic.
Thank you for the suggestions. I’ll see whats up
@deeplydisturbed my name is a tool reference. Nice pic.
Thank you for the suggestions. I’ll see whats up
@Typo-MAGAshiv thanks for the message. I’ll check that out, definitely need more tools in the toolbox for handling women once I’m already in a relationship or whatever.
Any quick way to get over being a bit upset from losin a plate? Not go fuck someone else but more mindset wise, how do I deal with it the best way possible?
Update on my Bit Lost/Confused post..
I do have questions, this isn’t a verbal vomit nonsense update.
Laid out to the married chick I’ve been fucking that I’m seeing other people, partly because her behavior was not up to standard (which I said), and partly because of all the comments warning not to mess with a married woman anymore (didn’t say).
As expected, she said she can’t stay with me if I’m seeing other people.. ironic coming from the married woman. Ended up removing me on all social media, fine. Whatever.
My problem is my headspace and mindset. I know this was not a healthy relationship, but as a plate, I guess I got too comfortable and stopped gaming. How can I keep a better and stronger frame and mindset with others in the future? Is it as simple as constantly having other women around? And if so, which I assume most of you reading are already like yeah jackass, game everyone then do you tell them, subtly or directly, that they’re not your only option? I feel it’s a bit nuclear.. as clearly this married woman bounced the moment she heard that. Should I expect her to come back?
Thanks for the time if you’ve followed since a few days ago.
Read More@goodmansaysfuckyou a book suggestion on top of an insightful reply. I appreciate you a ton.
@goodmansaysfuckyou I’m aware where I stand, our time is almost always sex and talking about how fun it was and looking forward to the next.
My question is more how worried should I be if her lover finds out.
What "give and take"? She has her husband as a Beta, the lover is supposed to be pure Alpha.
@goodmansaysfuckyou I’m asking for a bit of advice on how to manage so i can apply that to relationships going forward as well.
But you’re right, i don’t see a long term outcome here. I’m just enjoying myself
A Bit Confused/Lost
Very, very long time lurker. Have been following RSD and applying social principles for about 7 to 8 years now.
I’ll keep it brief, as I know details are mostly irrelevant.
Been hooking up with a married woman. Been a while. She’s supposedly in the process of getting divorced. We talk a lot.
There is a constant frame struggle. The time where she is submissive, light hearted, fun and flirty is perfect. I’m aware when the frame gets tested, but because a large portion of our communication is over text, it is hard to manage all the time. I do feel that a give and take in a relationship is healthy.. however every time I give a little, I find myself having to fight the mile taken and wrestle control back. It makes me not want to be generous, which is very much against my nature, and what I think a heathy relationship needs.
She is older, and still married. I don’t think dread game works, because she has a fallback always readily there. Is there any advice to keeping frame while still being able to be generous and giving? I’ll provide additional information if needed.
Is it worth it? I like her, but sometimes it doesn’t seem worth it to go through the wrestling process that she thinks everytime I give something to reward how she treats me, it becomes a frame battle.
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