@throwthatspiral

her insta is filled with shit like “when i make a man mad :)” and “he’ll get what’s coming to him”

I've never used that app; can you block people on it? You can IRL, and this girl sounds like a prime candidate.

@Lionsmane8 I’m working on this. I’m more overthinking if even flirting can hurt me, plausibly deniable or not. I haven't said anything explicit over text and insta but definitely strong and flirty, her insta is filled with shit like “when i make a man mad :)” and “he’ll get what’s coming to him” so I’m avoiding this particular person but worried about getting metoo’d or something.

@Vermillion-Rx we haven’t fucked. We were coworkers until very recently and i don’t shit where I eat so I never pushed that hard. She’s also very “progressive” and posts vague shit like “when someone does me dirty” over a karma comes back around type of pic so I have no idea if she can metoo me over a text or not. Makes me very hesitant

Should I avoid flirting over text? I know the goal is to meet up in person, don’t think it can happen with this particular person.

@throwthatspiral Don't ignore it; that voice of reason has great functionality.

Just reprioritize it correctly. Consider it a Jiminy Cricket giving you often-useful suggestions from your shoulder, not a cop ready to escalate to arresting you if you don't comply.

Fear of getting #metoo’d when flirting/talking to girls?

I’ll keep it short. When I flirt with girls and text, I always have a very strong fear that something I may say, even if light hearted and flirty or slightly more taboo like “we should hang out, though I’m not sure if you can keep up and handle it ;)” when talking about my motorcycle, but not my motorcycle, you know? I don’t have any hesitations escalating, but i do feel intense anxiety that now those words are set in stone and should anything happen, I can get metoo’d. Anyone else feel the same? Should I ignore the anxiety going forward or is this useful?

@Typo-MAGAshiv you’ve been very helpful in my questions and time here.. thank you. I’m digesting and internalizing. I have a problem, the moment i have some forward progress i have the urge to sit back and lean into romanticized beta behaviors as if everything is “smooth” again rather than fully internalize the mindset required

@deeplydisturbed what behaviors have you adopted or set to your default response in stead of the i need to fix this path?

@MentORPHEUS timothy leary was an mk ultra victim, i would take nothing from him except the dosage and set and setting.

I had a very, very severe psychosis and had to put my entire life on hold for 3 months to even get back to normal. However the result was me having a deeper understanding of the world, more open to spirituality, the loss of the npc script, and intro to the red pill

@Typo-MAGAshiv @inital-glove thank you. All my problems seem to be attention focused.. or talked with more out less of my attention. Interesting pattern