3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Typo-MAGAshiv

Also find some girls will be 2 or 3, and then switch to 1.

I went to a little social on Friday at a local bar, no gaming just strictly social. Walked up to a girl, introduced myself. Got a limp handshake and "eh" response. So just turned to the guy stood next to her and spoke to him for a good 10 minutes. Carried on along my rounds around the bar introducing myself.

Bit later in the night that same girl is giving IoIs and hunts me down to say goodbye - despite never having a conversation. So does happen.

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Vermillion-Rx

I only interacted with women who were stealing me. I didn't approach even one woman tonight who wasn't trying to get my attention. Worked better than usual

I never did the dance hall thing, but that was similar to how I did things once I started hitting my stride:

1) see IOIs? Approach and open, even if it's just "hi!" Anything is better than nothing.

2) no IOIs? No matter how pretty the woman is, if she's not showing interest, don't bother.

3) woman you're talking to starts putting up barriers? Resistance? Showing disinterest? Leave. Cut it off and move on.

It worked really well for me. Pick from the ones who show interest, and continually gauge their interest. Don't waste time and effort trying to win over the uninterested.

It saves a lot of time and energy, and you face less rejection so your morale/confidence stays high.

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Bozza

As you say, the less you care and the less invested you are the more success flows to you. But when you end up in a rut or on a bit of a losing streak it can sometimes be difficult not to take it to heart.

Quote-repeating again for anyone lurking or following along.

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Vermillion-Rx

I'm adjusting to a new way of operating so it's a rough permanent adjustment compared to previous changes. Probably similar to you I take it

Pretty much. More jaded than anything else really. And then trying to rebuild but it's been a bit rocky. The storm will pass, it always does.

I only interacted with women who were stealing me. I didn't approach even one woman tonight who wasn't trying to get my attention. Worked better than usual

Sometimes that's the best play, works surprisingly well. Guess you get the whole preselection going and they start fighting over you.

I assume this is the salsa/dance club or whatever right?

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Bozza

For sure. In my case it isn't a basic down in the dumps. My last thing fundamentally changed me

This is a permanent transformation not a temporary ebb and flow

I'm adjusting to a new way of operating so it's a rough permanent adjustment compared to previous changes. Probably similar to you I take it

But yeah, i did definitely just avoid any semblance of pursuit tonight and of anything that sort of resembled it i immediately abandoned mission the moment i got an ounce of resistance

I only interacted with women who were stealing me. I didn't approach even one woman tonight who wasn't trying to get my attention. Worked better than usual

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Bozza

I haven't gotten a text like this out the gates before. And I even apologized to her a couple times in the night. Mainly because my fuccboi energy was too high so i apologize for being in demand lmao

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Vermillion-Rx Sounds like a positive night though.

That's the thing when you're a little rusty. Lots of ups and downs. I'm in the same position atm. Some days I feel like the fucking man, some days a bit down in the dumps.

As you say, the less you care and the less invested you are the more success flows to you. But when you end up in a rut or on a bit of a losing streak it can sometimes be difficult not to take it to heart.

But hey, you had a solid night. Had some fun. Had a bit of success.

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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@Vermillion-Rx Bitch sounds thirsty.

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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4/4

Lmaaaoooooo

I even hugged my ex fling excessively right in front of this chick and then stayed on the floor with the girl i might fuck tomorrow instead of her at the end of the night

(Situationship chick)

You can tell she wants me to steal her off her situationshit. Challenge accepted

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3w ago  TheRedPill
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3/3

I didn't waste time like i usually do. The second chicks made it clear they were interested i asked what their weekend looked like

The first one clearly wanted me but outright said she was in a situationship and wasn't ready to be physical with someone else

I didn't even mention anything physical. I just said i was down to make plans. Nothing else. She filled in the blanks. I followed up with "I would like to get your contact information and she filled in her first and last name enthusiastically etc.

Second girl wouldn't really leave me alone after a bit and her male friend tried cutting me off. I said "just want to say bye to her" and then she asked me for my number. Probs gonna fuck her tomorrow if it works.

Just be swift and surgical. Pussy dries up over time just act on plans attempts who cares. They'll say no if they aren't interested

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