@Bozza This is "common law marriage", and it has existed in Scotland but not England until now. Obviously this is fucking terrible for men because it is marriage by the back door. To any man cohabiting for more than 2 years, get out now. When they bring this law in, it will apply to you retrospectively. Make other arrangements, move out, do a trial separation. If you don't do this, you will suddenly find yourself with all of the downsides of being married. Your live-in girlfriend will change as a result of this power shift. Things will not stay the same. Things will change and you will lose. Ask any man married for more than 3 years. Get out while you can.
We are so cooked. UK gov wants to bring in a law that if you live with a woman for 3 years she has claim to your finances - to bring things upto "modern arrangements".
@Bozza I had a similar bait-and-switch at my current job involving per diem
Looking for something else too
Shit week for me this week.
My car was broken into. Need to pay out for a new car window. Along with paying out for a car battery charger because the fuckers left my interior light on and ran the battery flat.
Started a new job last week billed as "remote/WFH". Today they pull a switcharoo on me and tell me that as of Monday I will be expected to be in the office full time.
Absolute muggins here took the company at their word. Contract stated "upto 5 days a week in office". I queried it and was told that was standard practice for remote/hybrid roles and that I could be asked to come in "occasionally". Well here we are on week two and they've completely pulled the rug on me. They now want me in 5 days per week -.-
While I'm going to push back, legally I've been snookered. After being unemployed for 6 months I need the cash and I'm not in a position to argue. But it's left a very bad taste in my mouth.
More fool me I suppose. You live and you learn. Guess I'm job hunting again.
Read More@Bozza I'm wondering if this is a good use-case for women friends. Not the "let's just be friends" women who are pity dumping you, but actual women friends who really have your back. I have plenty of women friends who are married, from childhood, cousins, etc. Bottom line is: If ANY pretty woman or authority figure is treating you with respect, the women follow.
Hobbies? "My older sister was into vinyl but she had strange tastes so she gave me her reject albums and those turned out to be the classics! After that, I got into collecting!"

