Oh it was warranted, and there was toxicity.
I will likely write up a post on this at some point. But I will wait to see how this situation plays out. I suspect this won't be the last I hear from her. Especially as she left the door open to fucking me.
This is a great story of being "fucked over" and then using dark triad/machevellian game to flip the roles and exploit her. But I want to see how far I can take this. And knowing her, I can take this pretty far.
As everyone knows I do a lot of swing dancing, and I fuck, so i see a lot of exes around
I can understand and respect the desire to troll.
The games usually continue after you stop seeing them. It's just female nature
I get stared at a lot by exes, some text me, usually to "come save them" or their current guy is shit or whatever. The staring is the creepiest
Some times I have my loyal follows fo lookout for me and they tell me I'm being stared / glared at lmao. The girls i dance with get snubbed
Women love drama. They love it almost (maybe even as much or more than) standard attention. If attention is oxygen drama is cocaine
@Lionsmane8 Oh it was absolutely trolling for my own amusement.
That's not amusement. That's revenge trolling.
You feel good for a while, and then you realize that there was nothing to gain there besides temporarily stroking your ego.
I forget how much I enjoy the element of amused mastery that is just fucking with people for your own entertainment.
Found the ex's tinder profile. She's been on a hard next for maybe 6 weeks, after she threw a tantrum because I wouldn't take her back and was just using her as a cum dumpster.
Thought the opportunity was too good to pass on, especially as the fucker has her main profile pic taken in my house. Screenshot it and send it to her. She bites. Of course she bites.
Bit cold, starts shit testing. You can see the moment the switch flicks. Instant replies. Flirting. This is all with pretty short and blunt messages from me. Flip the spotlight back onto her for flirting.
She jumps on the defensive and tries to reclaim some ground with some more shit testing. She's "seeing someone" now you see, so she couldn't possibly be flirting.
"as if that means anything." We've got her boys. Hook, line and sinker. Within a few messages she's rationalising being a whore. Specifically, my whore. (I thought she was "seeing someone"?)
I leave on read and ghost. Amusement fulfilled.
Read MoreIn the end it becomes an exhaustingly tangled web once one starts to deceive. I have been there. getting a fuck becomes a chore!
Easier just to break it off with the gf and just spin plates if thats what OP wants to do
@Kloi The trick is to sit on the periphery.
I like my plates with a bit of edge to them. I cannot stand boring women.
Inevitably that means their lives are full of drama, but they know the deal. I will observe their drama from afar, but if it enters my domain they are gone.
Whamen love their goddamn shenanigans
Not going to lie, there are times I miss the excitement that stems from all the drama off a toxic woman/lifestyle in general buttttttttttt I can't ever imagine putting myself through all the baggage that comes from said lifestyle.
@Kloi I get what you're saying, and I agree with you. Women with more wholesome hobbies are, generally speaking, green flags. But you gotta take in the wider context and vet them good.
It is only one bench mark used to gage how much shenanigans they'll bring to my life.
Whamen love their goddamn shenanigans
