@Bozza In vino veritas

@Lone_Ranger

a girl he hasn't even fucked.

Huh. I thought he had.

I'd go back and reread it, but he deleted it.

Hey @bozza, eat moar vcards for deleting your post.

@Bozza Born-again virgin cards for you then, for deleting drunken posts.

@Bozza

Amind view is definitely the land of deleted drunken posts

Anyway, you can become closed off from fucking a lot of women and having to train yourself to have no reaction to their bullshit or them leaving or you having to leave women often

That and she lives so far away your pragmatic brain is probably turning off your emotional thinking

I don't see a problem with this reaction to her, especially with the abundance mentality

@Lone_Ranger There was a point I was trying to make that made sense at the time, but reading it back you're right it sounds ridiculous.

@Lone_Ranger

I've deleted the post because it was some drunken rambling I posted last night after a few too many beers.

@Bozza is your pair bonding fucked....talks about a girl he hasn't even fucked.

Pair bonding kicks in after a sustained period of intimacy.

if you are wondering why you're not feeling 'pair bonding' with some chick you had a meal with....

@Bozza

can men destroy their pair bonding?

Not really a fan of the term "pair bonding", but men can fuck so much that it fries their brain. It's far more difficult and rare in men than women, but it happens.

Example: Roosh V.

And yet... I feel meh. I want to see her, fuck her, spend time with her, show her my city. I’m excited. But unlike past girls, there’s no instant switch flipped in my head.

Is my pair bonding just fucked?

You probably just lack chemistry with her. It happens.

Or you may have burned out your serotonin receptors, etc. Who knows.

@Bozza

But unlike past girls, there’s no instant switch flipped in my head.

Care to expand on this. What are you referring to being flipped?

Like an instant connection or the feelings of being madely in love?