@Kloi for all that women all have the same instincts, some of them are able to think ahead and not get involved with the wrong men
That, and Roosh wasn't exactly great looking
It was especially strange to see him and Roissy both complain about the lack of wife-worthy women; the handful of such women I've known would likely want nothing to do with either of them
I'd be curious why you believe they wouldn't be into either of those men.
3d ago JackedPact
@Kloi I never have this issue at my commercial gym. It might be because I am usually perspiring profusely, have very pronounced vascularity, and wear shirts that say things like "No Lives Matter," "Weak Things Break," "Vio-Lence," or that have threatening, sinister heavy metal imagery on them. Work on your look and wardrobe and people won't bother you.
4d ago JackedPact
To the 70 yo old man who walked up to me to inform me the ab machine was not a park bench. In a grumpy fashion.
Then after I explained to him, I have 45s left, the a set, then a two minute rest period before my last set. Went and got management because I'm just sitting there hogging the machine.
I'm sorry I audibly laughed when you tripped, walking away in a fus, bitching about these new generations coming up because management explained to you what a rest period was and informed you not everyone runs a cardio circuit on the machines.
Honestly I was a little irritated someone made it to your age without a lick of patience but I hope to be moving as much as you are into old age.
I hope this letter finds you well, Kloi
I think I may be in a similar boat and I attribute the lack of instant infatuation with my new girl to the fact it's my first serious LTR where dope (dope: any dopamine releasing substance) isn't a pillar of our foundation.
My emotional highs in this relationship haven't been artificially inflated by narcotics. While that's kinda lame, the emotional lows have been nowhere close to the downs of my past experiences. Thus far anyways.
I don't think I destroyed my pair bonding abilities (nor you @bozza tho idk your details/past) I just think this is more the pace two healthy individuals are suppose to come together. Tho my girl did assimilate to my lifestyle fairly quickly, still spending a little too much time together for such a fresh couple but that could be logiced out.
Over all I was the healthiest I've ever been entering a committed relationship this go around which means I'm more mission focused, equating to a stronger frame.
Ontop of that I knew better than to get with my ex, ignoring the UN of Red Flags before we started dating, then tolerating inexcusable behavior because she agreed to leaving my side of the relationship open. So fuck it why not?
Being the healthiest I've ever been, focusing on my goals/missions plus "knowing better" with my ex but still doing it anyways are the perfect ingredients for me not falling head over heals over this girl. On paper and through experience, she's the highest quality woman I've committed to but I'd prefer things stay this way. It's overall healthier because I lack the obsessive, unchecked infatuation of past committed relationships.
This is how it should be. Mind you we're only in the ends of our honey moon phase (9 months in).
Read MoreBut unlike past girls, there’s no instant switch flipped in my head.
Care to expand on this. What are you referring to being flipped?
Like an instant connection or the feelings of being madely in love?