New post at the WAATGM forum:
www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/316747/leftover_woman_worried_that_she_s_missed_her_window
Friendly reminder:
If she's making rules in order to be with her, she isn't into you. Pack it up and move on.
She is tired of being pumped and dumped.
www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/316739/she_is_tired_of_being_pumped_and_dumped
Chad-chasing entrepreneur wants a godly party guy.
www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/316737/she_is_looking_for_a_godly_party_guy
@Premanidhi she does none of those things? At all?
I find that hard to believe!
How long have you two been married?
@Problematic_Browser generally true, but exceptions exist (just like for every generality).
@woodsmoke , I am happy of the bearer of good news, I found one ,an she is my wife.
@Premanidhi So, in short, swear a vow of celibacy and join a monastery.
You're never going to find a woman who doesn't compete with others. You're never going to find a woman doesn't criticize or complain. You might find one who's not interested in controlling everything, but that comes with its own problems.
Generally speaking, the best outcome any man can reasonably hope for is to train his woman, with the help of family and community, to discipline her behavior and not give voice to the worst of her bullshit most of the time.
Asking for anymore than that is expecting less than a 4 crazy. And if you think you've found less than a 4 crazy it's time to start checking for a penis.
Don't get into a relationship with a woman who is not free from the the four C syndrome: Compete , Control , Criticize and Complain.
Friendly reminder:
EVERY woman has at least one backup plan in her life. Don't think you're her first choice - you're just the best one for now.