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Y'all get a load of shoe-fucker here
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A'ight, this calls for some:
celebratory vcards!
3045 at the beginning for shoe
713 at the end for your flouncing
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My question is this... Is it natural for a man to live with a woman?
Wrong question. There's a lot of shit people do that isn't "natural." We do it anyway because we've learned through various means it's the most efficient or simply the least problematic way of handling a given issue.
There are a lot of practical reasons for a man and woman to share a home. Most of them have to do with raising a family, which doesn't apply to you. Still others, per @Kloi's response, are grounded in the complementary natures of the sexes. That's probably pretty close to the ideal for a single man who's not interested in having kids but, as noted, you're well advised to have an exit strategy for if/when she decides it's Time to Get Serious. Also, per @Typo-MAGAshiv's response, simply finding such a woman in the first place is something of a losing proposition in most western cultures.
Ultimately, if you know you don't want children and don't want to cohabitate, you're probably just going to need to resign yourself to finding a new girl every X years. Keep an eye out for the good ones, to be sure, but don't count on actually finding one. It sucks but it's the nature of the beast.
Read MoreAnecdotal solipsism is a hell of a drug.
So you're effectively against marriage, then - at least in any developed Western nation.
And well you should be, given the state of things.
It's possible they're actually good girls and, if so, it would stand to reason none of 'em really know any rampaging turbosluts. "Birds of a feather," and all that.
Ain't saying it's likely, mind, but it is technically possible.
Far more likely is she and all her friends have their own share of closet skeletons they've convinced themselves don't count Because Reasons.
My high school girlfriend married the guy she dated after me. At the time, she could have honestly told him she was a virgin. She could not have told him he was the only man had ever seen her naked, nor that his was the only cock she'd sucked. Were she so inclined, however, I suspect she'd have little trouble convincing herself all the fooling around we did didn't count because it never amounted to actual penetrative sex.
I'm not saying I know or even suspect that to be the case, just illustrating the point.
Read MoreAt the time, she could have honestly told him she was a virgin. She could not have told him he was the only man had ever seen her naked, nor that his was the only cock she'd sucked.
she could have honestly told him she was a virgin...
lol no.
Oral counts, no matter what bullshit Bill Clinton pulled back in the day.
They just want the expensive marriage (party) and be married
Close. You're absolutely correct that they want to get married for all the social status signifiers and aren't particularly bothered about to whom, provided they can show him of to others (for the same reason as above).
Most of them don't actually want to be married, as is plainly evidence by how many of them pull the ripcord just a few years later.
It really wasn't much of a blowjob. She wasn't particularly enthusiastic about the whole thing and this was well before I'd been made aware of how large I am, so I didn't know how to coach her through things like I do now (and probably accounted for a fair bit of her trepidation).
I wouldn't begrudge her the lie, at any rate. I suspect most girls will have done some degree of fooling around when they were teenagers, if only because the boys they're dating are so pumped full of testosterone they'll be constantly pushing for it.