Let's face it: most men are losers.

If you are like the majority of us, you were not born into conditions that naturally lead you to flourish into a successful man. There is a good chance that if you are reading this, you made a significant effort to start molding your belief system into something of your own choosing. Your awareness about gender dynamics grew and you experienced a paradigm shift in your mental models of the world.

As I was going through this process myself some years ago, I reached the point where I had to admit it to myself that I was a pathetic loser. I had always been. What goes on inside your head does not matter if you don't translate the potential into physical reality. So there you are, finally comprehending you have not arrived at your destination; you have only just taken the first step on a difficult journey.

Self-realization must start with awareness. Even so, true change requires so much more. Willpower. Discipline. Mindfulness. Perseverance. It's also a balancing act between reaching your goals and holding on to your core values.

Over the course of my trials, I wrote hundreds of pages of notes. Today, I sincerely feel like I made it to where I wanted to be; it's the beginning of a new journey. A good friend encouraged me to start sharing my lessons with the community. This tribe will be about my story.