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Typo-MAGAshiv @Butthead
2 minutes ago The Public Square
@Vermillion-Rx same reply as before, minus the question about why you were posting it to weapons appreciation. I made a similar mistake yesterday, lol.
#ANYWAY...
You can drive yourself crazy with this sort of shit. Trust from a man to a woman has to be earned over time. Not days or weeks, but months and years.
I signed to my wife virtually every power of attorney imaginable so she could manage our affairs while I was in Iraq. I signed them all again 2 more times.
My only complaint was that she spent too much money, and to be fair, she has the same complaint about me.
How did I get to the point that I trusted her that much?
A) when we started getting serious, and I wanted to know more about her divorce, she was able to show me that everything she had said was true.
B) she had never once flaked on me, even when we weren't serious.
C) I kind of just got lucky. I was steeped in feminist brainwashing at the time (FFS, I asked her if she wanted to hyphenate her last name with mine, and to her credit she said no), and blundered my way through several things for years based on false premises. There will come a point where it's a leap of faith, so you have to be mentally prepared for the possibility of being betrayed (and even I knew that despite being steeped in feminist brainwashing back then).
But yeah, from what I recall seeing from you recently, and correct me if I'm wrong, but:
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you've only been with club/bar girls these past several months
- you expect too much, too fast, such as monogamy from them even when you tell them you aren't looking for anything serious
I mean, you're going to a slutty party venue, so you're almost certainly going to find nothing but slutty party girls. Yeah, most women are sluts anywhere you go, but a) there are degrees of severity of sluthood (serial monogamy vs. throwing her legs apart for a new dude several times a week), and b) outside of clubs/bars, your odds of finding a decent woman go from abysmal to just really low.
Read MoreTypo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR.
9 minutes ago WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
@moorekom @lurkerhasarisen yeah, @fumbor revealed what her Instagram was, which spurred my warning not to go harass her there.
She does have the thousand cock stare, and her poor boyfriend is likely in way over his head.
Vermillion-Rx
10 minutes ago The Public Square
So yeah
I didn't mean to post my question in the weapons appreciation tribe. I think I mis-clicked somehow in TRP red
Just gonna continue it in public square instead
@Typo-MAGAshiv @RedPirate751 @adam-l @Lionsmane8 @coolsocks00
"This is going to be a bit of a black pill/dark red pill question:
Can you actually trust a woman to be consistently honest to the point you can reliably believe virtually everything she says?
If YES, when do you know that?
If NO, how do you ever allow yourself to have any meaningful connection with one short of knowing everything she's doing?"
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR.
11 minutes ago WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
@Loneliness-inc all true.
But there was never a time in which shit tests didn't exist!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR.
12 minutes ago WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
What about when language didn’t exist?
Not difficult to imagine.
Caveman brings meat to cave. Cavewoman cooks meat. Caveman takes what he wants and doles to cavewoman some for her to eat. Cavewoman decides to try to take some of caveman's meat despite having perfectly good meat (and possibly better if caveman is the generous type) of her own.
Caveman can behave in a beta manner and just let her take it (shIt test FAILED), or he can smack her cavehand away and growl at her.
theultmatecad
13 minutes ago Weapons Appreciation
@Vermillion-Rx you can trust a woman to be a woman. When this is internalized and accepted, you can love a woman as she is without the insane blue pill expectations that can't be met
Typo-MAGAshiv
17 minutes ago Weapons Appreciation
why are you posting this in the weapons appreciation tribe?!
Anyway...
You can drive yourself crazy with this sort of shit. Trust from a man to a woman has to be earned over time. Not days or weeks, but months and years.
I signed to my wife virtually every power of attorney imaginable so she could manage our affairs while I was in Iraq. I signed them all again 2 more times.
My only complaint was that she spent too much money, and to be fair, she has the same complaint about me.
How did I get to the point that I trusted her that much?
A) when we started getting serious, and I wanted to know more about her divorce, she was able to show me that everything she had said was true.
B) she had never once flaked on me, even when we weren't serious.
C) I kind of just got lucky. I was steeped in feminist brainwashing at the time (FFS, I asked her if she wanted to hyphenate her last name with mine, and to her credit she said no), and blundered my way through several things for years based on false premises. There will come a point where it's a leap of faith, so you have to be mentally prepared for the possibility of being betrayed (and even I knew that despite being steeped in feminist brainwashing back then).
But yeah, from what I recall seeing from you recently, and correct me if I'm wrong, but:
-
you've only been with club/bar girls these past several months
- you expect too much, too fast, such as monogamy from them even when you tell them you aren't looking for anything serious
I mean, you're going to a slutty party venue, so you're almost certainly going to find nothing but slutty party girls. Yeah, most women are sluts anywhere you go, but a) there are degrees of severity of sluthood (serial monogamy vs. throwing her legs apart for a new dude several times a week), and b) outside of clubs/bars, your odds of finding a decent woman go from abysmal to just really low.
Read MoreTwoInchesOfShaft
25 minutes ago The Public Square
@RedPirate751 Exactly. He’s too far gone. He does not fight for the laws to be changed that actually make it a completely shitty deal but always fights for men entering into that shitty agreement.
Ithappened8588
36 minutes ago Ask TRP
So I’ve been talking to this girl for almost 2 months now. She’s an 8, and we have amazing sex she told me it’s the best she’s had in her life. She asks me to hangout with her every weekend since I’m busy during the week. I see her as potential LTR material even though I’m not pushing for one.
Yesterday we hung out and I had asked her how often does she get STD checked? This is because obviously if we are having raw sex I want to know. I had recently got checked myself and was fine but naturally I always assume that girls are talking to or fucking other guys. She told me she only does it every time she has a new partner. So I said you’ve been checked since you been with me? And she said no. I told her that I had, and the conversation came up of being exclusive.
She asked me am I fucking other girls? And she kept pushing me for an answer to which I answered honestly and said no but I keep my options open. She got all upset and told me that I’m the only guy she’s been seeing and she had already cut off everyone else because she wants me. She told me she wants to be exclusive and that if I’m gonna fuck other girls even with a condom she doesn’t feel comfortable with that. I told her I like the trend we had been on and we should keep seeing each other but I don’t want to rush into a relationship we need to know each other on a deeper level, so maybe if we hit 3/4 months of dating I’ll consider a relationship. But I don’t want this girl to fuck other guys if I’m fucking her raw for my health and the fact that I do like her.
But ultimately I agreed to date her and us be sexually exclusive without being in a relationship. This honestly sounds bad writing it out, but how can I bounce back from this? I feel like this probably is an attraction killer the fact that she thinks I’m all hers or something, yet I did say I still talk to other girls. What do you guys reccomend I do, just withdraw attention to show I can pull away?
Read MoreTypo-MAGAshiv @Butthead
38 minutes ago The Public Square
@goodmansaysfuckyyou @moorcom
lol u dun goof'd their tags
Read em and weep peasants
YOU are the peasant! See screenshot.
[trying to sell people on a trust]
Great idea! Send all your coinage to me!