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Don't worry, 30 is just coming into your prime.
Beautiful women are a bit different from ordinary women in that they know every man out there would bang them. They have total choice, so they wait to see who is interested. Most of their interactions with men they have just met are saying "no" one way or another. They really don't need any more of these in a day. So they are unlikely to actually initiate anything.
It is true that women invite courtship and that courtship very rarely succeeds if it is uninvited (this is where almost all the problems men have come from -failure to spot genuine female interest) but first they have to notice you and decide "I want some of his attention" You may have to go over and start a friendly conversation and see if she is interested.
Its hard to see with limited info. If we could watch you in action at a social event, we would probably know what it was that was stopping them wanting to draw you in. Some guys just don't see themselves as attractive and don't spot small signals. Others stare too much or fail to look with warmth and creep women out. You do need to be completely at home in your setting, acting with all the social norms but also have something about you that that separates you from most other guys. Beautiful women have a lot of interest form attractive men, you need to demonstrate more than good looks and thirst, some genuine connection, some je ne sais quoi.
Read Moreputting it all out there.
A disturbing many of them don't even realize they're doing it.
Sometimes you can even tell when they're ovulating by how they dress and act a bit sexier than they normally do.
But it's rarely conscious on their part.
I can tell you first and foremost, that's your main problem is expecting women to approach you. They don't do that.
I will definitely ask if you read the sidebar as @typo-MAGAshiv asked? You're going to also be suffering from confirmation bias. This is where you look for whatever evidence that will support a super negative worldview and a defeatist mindset. Seen this hundreds of times and guys on this forum. They will fight tooth and nail to keep their victim mentality but won't put themselves out there to talk to women. Give us more information on what your typical interaction with women looks like and where do you go to talk to them?
Sounds like you got the foundations right. Have you actually tried talking to women? Do you give off a "scary" vibe? Are you one of those dudes who's so big that people think you might eat them if they get too close? Perhaps a little more context of what happens on the social scene might give us a better idea of what we're working with here.
