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I can assume but it's challenging to tell
I rarely pass shit tests with force. It really doesn't take much if they already like you
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Maybe you just look too high value or need to tone down some red pill to plate them.
I could be far worse than I am (fron their point of view) but I typically don't take it that far
You might have to calibrate but either way it's quite clear what she's doing
I've had some of these girls as well despite extending additional rapport to them
Sometimes you get narcissistically wounded women or some girls that feel the absolute necessity to try to clown you for whatever reason
I encounter it frequently in my night scene. They hate your success some times
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Sign of a woman who has already ridden the rollercoaster with a final boss before you and instead of learning how to beat the boss she stands in the corner trying to cheese the boss.
It's fucking pathetic but I've had it happen to me to. They'd rather cheese the boss one cheap shot at a time till she wins than actually be a direct player.
Some women just do this.
It's not your fault they are just brain rotted from all kinds of bullshit and previous alpha dick and it's not your fault
This is women's equivalent of sport fucking
Fucking the guy too high above them (real or imagined) and then instinctively knowing they won't get what they want out of it past that but being too proud or entitled to keep having honest fun
And the doing everything they can to whittle down the guys ego and make him wonder why she won't fuck again because her ego is so damn high she gets more pleasure out of trying to control a man out of her reach than fucking him again
This is sport fucking for women. It's not entirely physical (although it can be). Like I said a week or so ago some women are so jaded and broken they will get off more on punishing alphas than fucking them (again)
She fucked a lot because you were good and made her feel alive
Then she remembered all the other times this has happened
She's full of shit dude. Her friends shit. Feminism's shit
This is her sour grapes girls game. She is trying to play whatever she can to have you and honestly she either knows or believes she's too far beneath you for you to stick around the way she wants
And if she were to accomplish her terrible girl game she would cry up for you too.
Girls who inherently feel like they are too far beneath you will do this shit and they will hamster into oblivion and then date Billy
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Tone matters in shit test passes
It's entirely possible even just slightly different tone would have a different outcome
Personally, I've gotten some similar shit tests about not coming back and i just allude to what they'd miss out on
"If you don't want to have a good time again who am i to stop you"
"I'm not sure you'll be able to avoid coming back"
I don't remember my exact lines but even a few extra words a and cheeky confident attitude can pass
Basically being indifferent is passing if they think you are absolutely dead serious however it introduces overkill drama
Women are so solipstic that they will sometimes fully absorb a joke as reality if it isn't removed enough from literal
@Vermillion-Rx So example with plate 1 the other day.
I told her to wear a nice lingerie set for me. She decided to get a little bratty/playful and wanted me to say please. So I yielded "please". She then pushed further "say the full sentence". Which I wasn't gonna do, so I just kinda dismissed that.
As expected, she shows up in lingerie. But plays her own little punishment game - "I would have worn the suspenders if you'd have been polite". Again, some mild cheeky response back.
She pushes this little shit test about me "not being polite" a few times over the evening. Again, all pretty mild and I just reinforce that she does what she's told.
Then before she left I can't remember exactly what she said. But it was a shit testing my authority.
I came up with some witty clap back, to which she says "Well, maybe I just won't come back then". And looks at me playfully.
I fired back "Don't then".
She then puts on the fake shock face "Bozza!". Didn't really think much of it at the time, but her demeanor subtly changed after that. Nothing terrible, but I think the subtext of "you can be replaced" did upset her though she didn't want to show it.
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@Vermillion-Rx I think one of my biggest problems is my response to shit tests.
I come out with some pretty dgaf responses and they just roll off the tongue. And sometimes the responses I fire back are maybe a bit too daf when it should have been more soft.
Plate 1 was shit testing me the other day. Can't remember what I said back, but it upset her a little. Everything was smooth and she was still flirting heavily after that, but I could see there was a chink in the armour and she was a little upset with what I'd said.
So I might have to give her a little more comfort next time I see her.
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I'd have to know more about your typical interactions with women but honestly just some minor communication changes can convey a ton of rapport without losing frame
I don't know enough about how you interact with your women but just consider it's probably something you could change slightly without sacrificing your goals
As much as I hate Frank Luntz, i learned a massive lesson from his quote:
It's not what you say it's what people hear
Girls are heavily responsive to phrasing. Two guys that mean exactly the same thing could say it a different way and get different results
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