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Durek_The_Bald
about an hour ago The Public Square
@coolsocks00 True that. If you upgrade somebody every now and then, you probably get the best of both worlds.
coolsocks00
3 hours ago The Public Square
This assumes you never upgrade plates. Solution is to move from plates who are just for fun to ones who have a level of relationship value you want, whenever you feel it's time.
When you start spending more time with one or two you will inevitably be invested (which doesnt mean needy).
This way you can eat your cake and have it too. Keeping the best of the bunch. That's central to the idea of plate spinning; not just to perpetually fuck sluts because that's your goal in life. It obviously isnt for most.
Lone_Ranger
3 hours ago The Public Square
@destraht Just listen to this 'woe is me' rambling. It's all main character syndrome with narcissism on top.
In the middle of this post is the main event;
"Somehow I'm different and super special"
And then it ends on...
"So you don't even know what that's like for me. It's so difficult."
Then he says (later in this thread) that I'm behaving like a woman?
Lone_Ranger
3 hours ago The Public Square
@destraht You're comical. You write like a fruit and you talk absolute nonsense.
Lone_Ranger
3 hours ago The Public Square
@imtranscending You dont like what I am insinuating?
You asked
- was she attractive? (extenuating circumstances?)
- where were the parents? (someone else to blame?)
Tell me, what am I insinuating?
Lone_Ranger
3 hours ago The Public Square
@Antelope You misinterpret - OP was asking if the 13 year old was attractive - I don't give a shit if she was or not.
Lone_Ranger
3 hours ago The Public Square
@Lionsmane8 It's a flowery way of saying;
"Bitches vary their bitch-on-bitch bitchiness according to threat perception."
Or - "Women turn up the bitchiness according to need. If they think their friend is better looking than them, they'll go full bitch mode. This is especially true if they are looking for men."
Its a rule within academia that you need to write in a way that reduces cognition. Otherwise, you're not getting a PhD.
Durek_The_Bald
4 hours ago The Public Square
Perhaps the plates, plates, plates advice was just simply on the line of being some kind of universal solution to being with women that is in fact not true, and not necessary.
I've never spun plates in my life, always did the serial monogamy thing. The only times I've had more than one woman at a time, is when there was a bit of overlap from one to the next. But I never intentionally, meticulously spun plates.
So take this for what it's worth, as I'm talking about something I haven't done, and there's always a bit of bias in favour of "muh way" (post hoc rationalization).
I think plate spinning is very useful for quickly building up an abundance mentality, and seeing what women actually are about. It probably took me longer because I was doing one at a time. Plate spinning is probably awesome as well, for times in your life where you only want sex.
I don't think plate spinning teaches you to have frame, however. It is, in a way, "playing it safe". By never being emotionally invested, you are essentially protecting your own fee-fees - which is a form of weakness and gayness.
At some point, a man's gotta learn to have frame even when emotionally invested in somebody. If you only have frame when not challenged like that, then you don't have frame. And if your world falls apart just because a girl you invested in dumped you, you don't have frame either.
I think it's well worth for men to practice LTRs, and to run through a bunch of them before eventually getting it right. Check out my post on the value of serial monogamy, if you haven't already:
www.forums.red/p/theredpill/321263/the_value_of_serial_monogamy_a_critique_of_trp_neuroticism_t
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