@JamesSkepp Science requires research and evidence that is consistent. Faith just requires belief.
You can show all the reasons you want but the more faith someone has the more unlikely you are to sway them.
This goes double if they've looped in an identity central to their faith.
@SwallowMyPill I'd start with putting more effort in how you write. It's the small things that add up. So, start there with that criticism. Your question is a step up from communicating with emojis.
Next, I'll summarize your post as "I didn't get laid".
You're not her gay best friend. This isn't a Rom com. Pull back and see if she chases.
She goes after you then you've got a shot. She doesn't then you're in her orbit. Distance further and game another chick, Romeo.
@Kt1910 Work and save. You sound young enough to pick up a trade or can go into post secondary.
Bite that pillow, swallow your pride. Her house. Her rules.
So, you need to move out. To do that you'll have to make more than you spend and have a nest egg.
When you get frustrated, use that anger to fuel your self growth. Hit the gym and/study.
Offset it with a constructive hobby.
Limit escapism to as close to nothing as possible.
@Dazzling-Knowledge14 Honestly, sometimes I think it is.
Aside from sex and starting a family, there's not much else that a woman brings to the table that you can't find elsewhere but better.
Assuming your self sufficient, you can cook, clean and take care of yourself better than a woman since you know what you want. You should be self reliant
If you're looking for comradery and friendship, you've got men that will be more grounded than any female counter part. You'll deal with less drama, similar tastes, and masculine men bring out a healthy competitive side that's sorely lacking in today's men.
If you're looking for companionship and loyalty, you've got man's best friend for that. I've never heard of a dog leaving a man when he's unemployed, going through trauma, or cheating on him. Dogs are bread for loyalty. Hypergamy isn't.
And being honest, when you look at a woman, your main thought isn't "I'm really looking forward to watching 90 day fiancée with her or hearing about her day." You want to have sex. The relationship is the byproduct of that sex. However, it's been romanticized to the main reason these days to pursue a relationship since most men are looking to fill that fantasy of having a maid/mother/bestfriend/sex doll. The problem is that doesn't tend to work out to well since fantasy =/= reality.
That's not to say that there's no benefit to having feminine women in your life. There's a certain feeling that you get from having a woman depend on you, want you, comfort you, and follow you that you can't really dismiss.
Read More@Dazzling-Knowledge14 You're probably fine. I wouldn't think too much into it. Women do stupid little tests (shit tests, comfort tests, etc.) to see what kind of guy you are. Messing up one or two shouldn't have an impact overall unless she's not sure or has options. The more attractive you are the more leeway you'll get.
Only suggestion that I have is to see if you can get another 1-2 girls that you can hit (abundance) up and to try to escalate towards sex by date 3 (Fclose) with the current girl. Going on numerous dates without a payoff is just putting you in a beta provider and inviting you to get more tests. I have a 3 day rule, and I'm not shy about it.
Being upfront about your wants/needs will weed out a lot of time wasters and money sinks. You'll lose some women but the ones that stay know that you're a man with options and will default the relationship to one based on your needs/frame.
So, you don't need to force her to be alone with you and be aggressive but you can be masculine and say shit like "Sexual compatibility is very important to me and I can't see myself in a long term relationship with someone who doesn't have chemistry."
Read MoreWelcome lone wolf.
Holding a bag is a bitch move but it's not going to be a silver bullet against you.
Tons of questions though for context.
We'll start there and that's a solid frame of reference.
As for where to start, check out the book of pook. Search it up, consume that content and you'll get a good idea on what to do next.
Depends.
If you want to go with what you can/can't prove then you can't disprove that you're not really dreaming. This is a a simulation and you're really a 78 year old Rastafarian grandmother now can you?
So, are you asking me to show you how you can search up any religion and see where it came from, it's beliefs and how it's recorded and spread since each religion has the common variable of man?
OR
Are you asking me to verify that my neighbour's dog is a devout Buddhist and each time it barks it's proselytizing?
I mean we can do the former pretty easy the latter I just have faith since I can't be bothered.
Now, If you want to go with cold logic. You can search up the facts and they objectively lead you to that <insert religion> was made up by <group of people> to <explain/rationalize/comfort excuse> and only exists by faith. You can do that for any faith and that statement is objectively true.
If you know any religious example that does not follow that structure, I'd like to hear it.
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