The only real way I've found to invest energy into these types of girls and come out ahead is to flip the script.
Invite them out to events, but make sure she knows it's just as friends. Give her the dance, then walk away. Flirt with her but in a joking manner. No sexual undertone. No sexual energy. After all that’s what she expects.
This is quite genius. Reminds me a lot of the shit OmLaLa used to pull. Maybe I should experiment more with this kind of shit
The types of women you're describing get off on being a tease and while I can't fully rationalize it myself, the closest I've come;
They get the benfits of being seen with, being courted by and just the over all fun/experience of a top tier male without the side effect of opening their legs.
On top of that, they're probably aware, we're all sexual deviants making this her way of playing the players.
It's odd to us because we'd expect similar behavior from her for free meals from Beta Bucks Billy, but how dare she do it to Chads.
The only real way I've found to invest energy into these types of girls and come out ahead is to flip the script.
Invite them out to events, but make sure she knows it's just as friends. Give her the dance, then walk away. Flirt with her but in a joking manner. No sexual undertone. No sexual energy. After all that’s what she expects.
At worst I end up with beautiful eye candy that can be used for pre-selection or she buzzes off on her own.
At best they're normally good for a ONS but at that point, if they're that good looking, I'd rather keep up the song and dance, not fucking them.
Some of my most reliable wing men were these types of women and doubt if the majority caught on to the game I was playing.
Though there was one stripper that stood out. Me and my boy both instinctively played the we're not sexually interested card and she knew it. Interesting gal.
She'd feed us pussy and we'd feed her betas to devour. What a beautiful year that was.
Read MoreRight and agreed
I never forget Malardcove's "you're not her top option"
It's my favorite post of all time
It's so true it stings at times if you ignore it
You can just tell when they are so down they can't help it. Anything less feels like a self own and some times you can't help your ego
That post is undefeated. Luckily i next these hoes fast
@Vermillion-Rx Oh yeah I don't really take these things to heart. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
"Outplayed" more in the sense that they laid a trap, and I walked right into it without spotting it.
But with the benefit of hindsight, you spot the signs, see where you went wrong, and your game gets better for next time.
Hence I don't see it as a failure, more as a game.
I'll get around to it. Still moving and working on bigger RP projects atm
But yes I've come to learn a lot of girls just have a revenge arc that they can't let go of
Even if it wastes 1-3 year of their life on chodes they will spite you and go waste 3 years of their fucking life on a placeholder to cope
I have some additional posts on the matter as supplement. I'll let you know when I get to them
@Bozza Yeah that's like the bitches that text you on Sunday after Chad pumped and dumped them on Friday Saturday or they tried to fuck and got stood up
No bitch.
@Vermillion-Rx Speaking of chicks playing games. Remember that girl a few days back I said was pushing for the instagram and got all pissy.
Well she's back.
After unmatching me from hinge, few days later she's super liked me on tinder to try and rope me back in. Ain't playing that game bitch.
I don't think they out play you
I really don't
They are sacrificing a good time for some bullshit exposure therapy
That's not out playing you, that's sacrificing enjoyment and good memories so they can suck on the dick of alleged healing
Only a shattered miserable loser would do that to a guy so she can cope with her life
I don't feel outplayed by such women, i know they are negotiating from a point of wounded loserdome to the extent they have to reel in and then reject high value flings to cope with their sad existence
You are only outplayed if you keep playing along with their loser games
Oh yeah it's 100% a self esteem/revenge thing. For whatever reason they've got something you prove and you just happen to be the convenient target at the time.
But interesting take that maybe it's directly tied to AF/BB cycle.