Plate ended things- where did I go wrong?
I've been seeing this girl since October, I met her at a halloween party, where she cheated on her boyfriend with me. I kept talking to her, went on a few dates and we had sex twice since the party. I woke up seeing she removed me on snapchat and a message from her saying "your ego is too big and its not funny any more so I'm going to remove you" I hadn't messaged her for about 5 days before this, so maybe that was the reason? Maybe I was too much of an "asshole" and didn't show enough beta qualities to keep her around longer?
is there any way to salvage this? I feel like if she was serious about ending things she would have blocked me instead of just removing me (I can still message her), but maybe that's just my big ego lol.
If not, would anyone have an idea as to where I went wrong?
Read MoreLooked at the black pill the other day.
Fucking hell that shits disgusting. So sad that young men fall into that trap. I don't know that much about it but from what I saw that shit can ruin your life.
It's easier for me to approach men than women.
I've always been fairly confident and have always spoke to pretty much everyone around me. Im popular at my gym and talk to pretty much anyone. I have no problem going up to guys and making friends with them easily.
For some reason, it's way way harder for me to approach women with the same energy. My brain and social skills kind of just turn off when it's a girl.
This is so weird because I have absolutely no problem going up to random guys and starting a convosation.
Ive started cold approaching, which has made me realise I have this problem.
How do I fix this/get out of this weird mindset that I have.
Should I pay for the date?
I don't want to be that beta/provider guy who pays for the date and provides for the woman, and then ends up having to go on 3-4 dates before actually fucking.
But at the same time I don't want to be the pussy who insists on splitting it 50/50, I just feel like that makes you seem like a pretty weak person.
This isn't just about paying for a date, but more about how much should you actually provide in a relationship?
@Typo-MAGAshiv Thanks for the info I thought r/redpill got banned, which is why everyone came to trp.red?
I'm new here and need help navigating the site
Can someone explain where I can find detailed, long posts where I can actually learn something.
@Typo-MAGAshiv The thing you said about the "jumbotron test", how are you meant to send such a good message every time you text her?
When youre texting her, at some point youre going to have to use the standard boring lines like "how are you" in order to keep the convo going.
Now obviously, I know lines like this don't really work but genuinely, what else are you meant to say?
Or is the idea that you don't text her so much, that you have to use lines like that?
@Typo-MAGAshiv
Let's say we agree on a day to meet. Should I continue to message her on the days leading up to the date?
It feels kind of awkward to not message her at all on the days leading up to when we meet.
But at the same time it feels like a pussy thing to do, to continue to ask her how she is or how her days been, when I never cared in the first place.
