It's easier for me to approach men than women.
I've always been fairly confident and have always spoke to pretty much everyone around me. Im popular at my gym and talk to pretty much anyone. I have no problem going up to guys and making friends with them easily.
For some reason, it's way way harder for me to approach women with the same energy. My brain and social skills kind of just turn off when it's a girl.
This is so weird because I have absolutely no problem going up to random guys and starting a convosation.
Ive started cold approaching, which has made me realise I have this problem.
How do I fix this/get out of this weird mindset that I have.
Should I pay for the date?
I don't want to be that beta/provider guy who pays for the date and provides for the woman, and then ends up having to go on 3-4 dates before actually fucking.
But at the same time I don't want to be the pussy who insists on splitting it 50/50, I just feel like that makes you seem like a pretty weak person.
This isn't just about paying for a date, but more about how much should you actually provide in a relationship?
@Typo-MAGAshiv Thanks for the info I thought r/redpill got banned, which is why everyone came to trp.red?
I'm new here and need help navigating the site
Can someone explain where I can find detailed, long posts where I can actually learn something.
@Typo-MAGAshiv The thing you said about the "jumbotron test", how are you meant to send such a good message every time you text her?
When youre texting her, at some point youre going to have to use the standard boring lines like "how are you" in order to keep the convo going.
Now obviously, I know lines like this don't really work but genuinely, what else are you meant to say?
Or is the idea that you don't text her so much, that you have to use lines like that?
@Typo-MAGAshiv
Let's say we agree on a day to meet. Should I continue to message her on the days leading up to the date?
It feels kind of awkward to not message her at all on the days leading up to when we meet.
But at the same time it feels like a pussy thing to do, to continue to ask her how she is or how her days been, when I never cared in the first place.
Is there any point to a talking stage?
I feel like constantly messaging a girl (who you're not even dating) over weeks/months wastes so much time and is so draining.
But how else do you go about dating/meeting women? It feels like the "talking stage" is a must but at the same time, mostly leads to nothing.
