@RPschreding Precisely what I'm working on. I've been overly nice all my life and that's what I'm trying to fix. Saying 'no' more was one of them, being a 'total dick' is not exactly something that i can or want to be. For example, I'll never go insulting women in the hopes I look like an asshole, I think my meanest thing so far is being a bit more banter oriented with them women.
@Vermillion-Rx Should have used the quotes for you then.
@Vermillion-Rx I don't think I ever said that I want to be a dick with everyone at all times, if that's what it came across, then my bad. My idea as more along the lines of how I said it the first time, saying "No" to people, especially to girls. "Hey can we do a small photoshoot pwleeaasseee" <- yeah not getting used for free pics to get your clicks. And ofc the crowd's favorite "Can u give me a ride?".
You also fail
I didn't say any of those things, keep your pants on. I was only saying that I'm learning to not be overly nice when it doesn't suit me, because when that worked out for anyone anyway.
If your goal is to be a total dick you are not going to get laid from it, because you still would need to take the steps that would get you laid
You also don't understand why women like "assholes". You also fail to understand that women only call men "assholes" whom they fucked and didn't get committment from
You also fail to realize you won't be a sexually successful "total dick", you'll just be a mean incel
You also fail to realize that being purposefully mean to get pussy is a needy dependent behavior that will only attractive broken narcissists into your life, if they even fuck your needy mindset
"I'd rather talk about that stuff in person" <- Tried this and I got the "I don't talk about my feeling is public" or "That's for later for you to discover".
Sounds like she's stringing you along for free attention
I want money for myself, to earn my freedom and get a better life, I'll in no way lead with my wallet, or have flashy things to showcase my wealth.
That's great, but why did you list "earning more money" among the steps you were taking to make yourself more fuckable, and then react with surprise when I told you that money doesn't make pussies wet?
This appears way too thought out. And are you kissing them somewhere where you cannot escalate further or when there is no vibe?
The only reason a woman would not see you again after a kiss is because you have no where to pull them, your next plwns with them suck, bad kisser, or there was no real vibe and so the kiss to them was the final apex of what they could possibly want from you
Or they had another option. It's rare for kisses to not go further unless you are not confident or over invested or your plans are bad and you have no actionable next steps, not pulling them at all
Dole. To hand out. You are giving these sluts unlimited attention and engagement in exchange for zero sex
@Goingthedistance you've privately shared them with me and you're not understanding my post