@Goingthedistance Actually, you're right, and everyone here is wrong. We should all learn to be more vigilant when it comes to simps and stuff, get ourselves more worked up and ragy. Especially when we're partying, socialising, and trying to have fun. I mean, that's all fun and games, but who's keeping an eye on the simp?

You've changed my mind. And it's a good thing you did, cause I (coincidentally) have a work party this weekend. The others have made me their designated driver, which means I'll be mentally sharp for some quality simp watching. If I find one, I'm going to be watching him like a hawk, and make sure m'ladies are alright too.

Thanks, Goingthedistance!

@Typo-MAGAshiv > Let the man hang out with his fiancee.

And you were talking about treating me with kid gloves.

@Typo-MAGAshiv

Feedback which is actionable isn't "dunking".

What feedback was that? Perhaps my initial post was poorly written, but I never got the chance to finish.

You are too focused on what other people do.

I was just starting a conversation about how the boys group evolved at the party while that guy excluded himself. But I never got to make my point or explain the situation further.

Let the man hang out with his fiancee. That's not your problem, especially after he turns down your invitation.

That was not my point, like, at all.

Did your chat up any chicks there?

The married chicks you mean?

What did you do besides play

I signed two work contracts with the boys at the party, made at least 3 new male acquaintances and had fun.

@Kevin I did not say anything that you just mentioned, you are projecting your nonsense on the situation I was describing. A situation that was not even hating on the guy as much as observing his behavior with his fiancee against all the guys. To put it short, not only did he embarrass himself in front of 10 guys but he 100% embarrassed his fiancee in front of her coworkers and their husbands.

Most guys just talk about sports and video games. And not playing sports or making video games.

No they don't.

No. Talking about other guys doing things.

Your not so subtle jab at me achieves nothing.

At least with women I can flirt with them for fun.

Sure you would.

@coolsocks00 Oh yes me in a better light sure. But if you said it so m'lord, it must be true. Can't argue with that.

@Kevin I never got mad about the guy, I was merely observing his behavior with the boys vs. when his fiancee arrived and the rest of the night. And how he placed himself into a position when he became the joke of the group, the same group that contained coworkers of his fiancee I might add. But I digress, I only wanted to have a discussion about the dynamics of the group and the guy.

Instead you and everyone else took it as an opportunity to dunk on me.

@Goingthedistance

But whatever, my post was about something else and now it's about me doing whatever

That's how feedback here generally goes. You've got your external loci of control: "I so and so, because random simp". We bring it back to the internal: "You so and so, because you".

@Goingthedistance

"No More Mr. NiceGuy" by Dr. Robert Glover, and "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" by Dr. Manuel Smith.

[I've]Read both.

It seems to me that you just kind of cruised on through them without digesting the ideas they present.

Maybe give them another, more thorough reading and use Rian Stone's companion videos on YouTube to assist.