@jprdl That's my opinion as well. There's also this idea that it only matters how many girls you sleep with, the quality of girls is not important. I constantly get the " bro, i've slept with over 40 by now, wtf is wrong with you?". Yes, seeing his last 5-10 "lays" really put me off, those were 5s at best.
@jprdl I am in Eastern Europe. Also, for parties, is it just me or are a lot of people just drunk and stoned all the time? The last few parties I got dragged to only had weed and strong alcohol, nothing that I'd say was "fun". I also keep seeing the idea that if you're not into weed and things of that nature you are not part of the "cool kids", a thing which I find distasteful.
@adam-l Thanks a lot for the encouragement! A lot of times, I get bombarded with ideas and messages like 30 years old for a man is the end of the world. One of the things I keep hearing lately is "if as a guy you aren't in a relationship by 30, something's wrong with your life". Uh.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I understand and it's great to see that some ideas I had about moving forwards in age are true. At the gym I never ego lift, I try to protect the knees at all cost, the worst thing I believe is to have bad knees. Still, thank you very much for your insight. All that is left for me then is to go out and try having hobbies that will result in friends and meeting girls. Perhaps it's that simple?