@Fawking_Gay How would you handle if a LTR or potential LTR lied to your face until you came across proof saying otherwise.
One of my BP traits I'm still dealing with is being too easy/forgiving
@Fawking_Gay How would you handle if a LTR or potential LTR lied to your face until you came across proof saying otherwise.
One of my BP traits I'm still dealing with is being too easy/forgiving
Is lying a deal breaker for you guys? I mean straight up falsified stories and that kind of thing.
As I deal with the withdrawl from my previous LTR I have begun to realize why I am so messed up over this breakup.
Even though I thought I had changed, I still make women the goal or mission in my life. That is why I feel so lost when a LTR ends. I found myself switching my focus from my LTR to getting plates. Still making women the focus of my life. I want to change my focus but unsure of my first step.
In the future, try to not spend too much time fixated on the problems and disappointments in your life unless you're also going to spend time thinking up, or finding, ideas on actionable solutions those problems and disappointments.
Get yourself a sheet of paper and write out a list of the things you've wanted, or were otherwise unable, to do. Don't concern yourself with how simple, complex, expensive or cheaply they are to accomplish. Just make the list. Then when you've finished your list, do them one at a time until the list is complete.
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As I deal with the withdrawl from my previous LTR I have begun to realize why I am so messed up over this breakup.
Even though I thought I had changed, I still make women the goal or mission in my life. That is why I feel so lost when a LTR ends. I found myself switching my focus from my LTR to getting plates. Still making women the focus of my life. I want to change my focus but unsure of my first step.
@redpillschool I have improved a lot already since the last message.
Im just still dealing with thoughts caused by oneitis. What if I cant get someone better in x way. Attractiveness, etc.
Now I'm also dealing with the fact that she's showing up at places that she knows I'll be at. Trying to put herself near me I guess. So I will initiate an interaction with her. I have not spoken to her since the breakup even though she's tried this a few times.
How long do you normally deal with lack of motivation after the end of a LTR.
@IHateNames at this stage in my life, no I wouldn't.
In the past, I have until I couldn't stand it anymore.
One of the advantages of my wife being a cop was that she completely understood when the Army took priority (which was always). Now that I'm a civilian, she is still understanding that I can't always hear or get to my phone (but I do check my texts occasionally in case something important happens).
If she wants 100% of your attention 100% of the time, she's psychotic.