1w ago The Hub

@Butthead

@Kloi @Bozza @vermilion-Rx I haven't read this thread in-depth, but all 3 of you seem a bit lost vis-a-vie comfort tests and when to give comfort

I recommend the sidebar material at MRP, primarily Athol Kay's "Married Man Sex Life Primer" and Rian Stone's first two books, "Praxeology Volume 1: Frame" and "Praxeology Volume 2: Dread".

A few quick pointers:

1) Agree & Amplify works on shit tests and for general fun, but you will fail comfort tests with it. She'll likely start crying.

2) you don't have to provide relationship comfort if she didn't earn it or if you just don't want to. Some plates are meant to break.

3) comfort will never pass a shit test.

4) you need to know the difference between shit tests and comfort tests. Shit tests are usually "you" statements, such as "you never take out the trash" or "you don't care about anything", and they're the woman instinctively testing your strength. Comfort tests are usually "I" statements, such as "I feel that this isn't going anywhere" or "I'm afraid that you're going to cheat". If in doubt, apply A&A. If it works, it was a shit test and you passed. If it fails and she doubles down with something like "I'm serious, this is important to me" then it's a comfort test and you should switch to fogging.

Do you see why "LTR/ marriage is Red Pill on hard mode" is a warning rather than a flex? We are only scratching the surface here.

1w ago The Hub

@Butthead

@Kloi @bozza already nailed it

I want a woman who is so into me that she can't keep her hands off. I'll suss out her past later.

The one who makes you wait?

1) There's at least 1 guy in her past she didn't make wait (Rollo's proverbial "hot guy at the foam cannon party")

2) she not that into you if she's wanting to make you wait

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Kloi

1w ago The Hub

Scarf-wearing fruitbat

If you sound too emotionless/un concerned a plate will eventually crash as they perceive you lack of comforting tone as proof that you don't really give a flying fuck about them. Even when actions would indicate otherwise.

She decided to get a little bratty/playful and wanted me to say please. So I yielded "please". She then pushed further "say the full sentence". Which I wasn't gonna do

You're too kind. You gave an inch and she wanted a mile. Either I wouldn't have complied at first or I'd have responded;

Bitch please come over in that sexy little outfit I enjoy so much on you.

She got what she wanted but not how she wanted it. I'd like to think it teaches them a lesson on being greedy but I doubt it.

It's just one of the little games I play for my own amusement.

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Kloi

1w ago The Hub

Scarf-wearing fruitbat

@Bozza

I'm going to agree with @vermilion-Rx nothing you said sounds outlandish. As long as Don't then. came out with an undertone of playfulness.

What I've said in similar situations would be pretty much the same. Implying if you no longer want to come, so be it.

But I've spent years taking the condescending, annoyance out of my tone.

if they think you are absolutely dead serious

If I had a nickel for ever time a woman took a clearly sarcastic joke at face value...

Women are so solipstic that they will sometimes fully absorb a joke as reality

Yes, you almost have to find grounding facts to individually bring each girl back to reality.

Example my girl has some food allergies and if I really need her to understand something isn't serious, I'll throw in let's go get peanuts which lets her knows I'm fucking around because we both know it would kill her.

That's how aggressive you need to be if you deliver your response deadpan. My girlfriend bitches that my tone never changes from when I'm being serious versus sarcastic.