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@Musicgoon78 replied to a comment that I made and, in part, he's right. But it started a train of thought that led to the post that follows his reply:

"I don't change myself for what a certain type of woman. I follow my own path instead of playing dancing monkey for pussy. That's a slippery slope of pandering to women."

As I said, he's partially right. Constantly reinventing yourself to please women isn't a way to success with them - in fact it's almost guaranteed to lead to a place where women exploit you. It's important for a man to have his core mission and sense of self.

What I will say is this: you have to be attractive to the groups you want attention from. So what's the solution?

It is this: you need to know who you are fundamentally - the inner self. You have to know what your boundaries are, what your goals are, and what your priorities are. Those are the things that should never change for women. Women are actually more attracted to men who have those boundaries. What you can change are trivial details that don't impact your inner self.

The trivial stuff should be aimed towards your temporary goals, be it in dating, work, etc. I challenge you to find one thing in your life that you don't have to alter some trivial aspect of yourself to achieve or accomplish.