Problematic_Browser
And no man *[who actually knows his worth] is going to make the level of sacrifice that a marriage requires for anyone who is just a friend.
FTFY
too many men don't understand that they're actually the prize
@Problematic_Browser this kind of reminds me of one of @Archwinger's old posts: Women are as shitty as you let them be
@Freespiri If you're not fucking, you're just friends.
And no man is going to make the level of sacrifice that a marriage requires for anyone who is just a friend.
Red pill lesson: "You get what you accept."
One of the lessons I learned from my failed marriage is this: you get what you accept.
My ex was not forthcoming with sex. And that's putting it in a nice way. I recall a conversation we had before we were engaged, and I told her "The amount of sex we're having is going to have to increase or this isn't going to go well".
She made assurances that it would be better after we were married, and I foolishly believed her. I accepted the present conditions and pushed forward.
Needless to say, the sex not only didn't improve, it declined.
My mistakes here were:
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Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do.
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Women do not put in effort for things they have. They put in effort for things they don't.
- You get what you accept. (Which is what I'm going to go into)
You see, if you give a woman something on the conditions that she give you something later, you will never get what you want. If she is "on her weight loss journey" and you give her commitment, she'll be fat forever. If she's the kind to blow money but promises it will be better when she has access to your money, you'll die broke (and alone, because she'll divorce you). If she's the kind to ration sex, her behavior won't change when you capitulate.
When you give women what they want, the transaction has concluded. All promises of compensation or future changes to behavior are void. There are no exchanges, substitutions, or refunds. Get shit on incel.
Do not give a woman commitment on the promise of future behavior, especially if that behavior requires the woman to inconvenience herself. Demand the change in behavior before you offer commitment.
Read More@Problematic_Browser I made those same mistakes
What Carl of Black Label Logic calls "beta-ization through a thousand concessions".
@Typo-MAGAshiv I was. It was awful.
Not that it was awful in the beginning, but as my value increased and the respect I received decreased, it was hell.
In hindsight, I understand how I fucked up. I broke a lot of rules:
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Never give them everything they ask for.
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Never let them think they're the only option you have.
- Never place them above your purpose.
Honestly, I'm dating a woman now and following these rules have made it a very enjoyable experience.
Tag @Problematic_Browser - if memory serves, you were married before, right?
8th fucking try. If my phone fucks this one up, I'm saying "fuck it" lol
Have you learned nothing?
Of course he has learned nothing.
He is retarded.
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@Acela_nextel Awww you're hurting my feelings. I thought that we had something special.