@Jocbro

"Red flags" - although helpful and somewhat accurate - are really just indirect assessments; a mix of "how women ought to be", other guy's experiences, and what TRP community says. For example, tattoos can potentially mean a lot of things. And there are plenty of good reasons to get a divorce (or two).

At the end of the day, the only really accurate assessments you can make are those that come directly from within your own frame - assessments that can be expressed using the words "I" and "me". "I care about this", "I don't care about that".

Some direct assessments take time, like "how does she behave towards me over time", or "does my sex life suffer the more involved I get with her". It is fully possible to invest that time to find out, without getting entangled into something that's going to be complicated to get out of.

Just don't knock her up, marry her, or move in together (basically the 3 rules of MGTOW), and you'll be fine.

starting to catch feels (with 4 girls in rotation)

This is a direct assessment. It probably means that you enjoy her company beyond just sex, and/or that you have good sexual chemistry. That's important to consider.

Being married twice is not appealing nor is 20 body count

This is also a direct assessment. Something about her is unappealing to you.

So the question then becomes: What do you want to do? If you don't want to jump ship, then don't jump ship. Just play it safe (3 rules of MGTOW), and take the time to directly assess.

Me, I'm sceptical to this woman. But I don't know her. So I, and everyone else in here, can only give you the tropes you already know. However, there's no such thing as a woman without red flags. So if you want something meaningful, you can't always go just by that - you'll at some point have to invest the time to assess directly from within your own frame.