Durek_The_Bald
about a day ago The Public Square
@Lone_Ranger Oh God. One of these days, the collective mega-hamster (built up of all the interconnected little hamsters) is going to reach singularity, and the universe will implode, and collapse back into only "the word". Only, it's going to be two words: "muh deserve", like a whisper going through the void, an echo of what once was.
Durek_The_Bald
about a day ago The Public Square
"Red flags" - although helpful and somewhat accurate - are really just indirect assessments; a mix of "how women ought to be", other guy's experiences, and what TRP community says. For example, tattoos can potentially mean a lot of things. And there are plenty of good reasons to get a divorce (or two).
At the end of the day, the only really accurate assessments you can make are those that come directly from within your own frame - assessments that can be expressed using the words "I" and "me". "I care about this", "I don't care about that".
Some direct assessments take time, like "how does she behave towards me over time", or "does my sex life suffer the more involved I get with her". It is fully possible to invest that time to find out, without getting entangled into something that's going to be complicated to get out of.
Just don't knock her up, marry her, or move in together (basically the 3 rules of MGTOW), and you'll be fine.
starting to catch feels (with 4 girls in rotation)
This is a direct assessment. It probably means that you enjoy her company beyond just sex, and/or that you have good sexual chemistry. That's important to consider.
Being married twice is not appealing nor is 20 body count
This is also a direct assessment. Something about her is unappealing to you.
So the question then becomes: What do you want to do? If you don't want to jump ship, then don't jump ship. Just play it safe (3 rules of MGTOW), and take the time to directly assess.
Me, I'm sceptical to this woman. But I don't know her. So I, and everyone else in here, can only give you the tropes you already know. However, there's no such thing as a woman without red flags. So if you want something meaningful, you can't always go just by that - you'll at some point have to invest the time to assess directly from within your own frame.
Read MoreTypo-MAGAshiv @Butthead
6 days ago The Public Square
You should check out his conversation with Rian Stone...
Seconded. Link available here, @Lone_Ranger
Durek_The_Bald
6 days ago The Public Square
@Lone_Ranger You should check out his conversation with Rian Stone as well. It's great. Such a breath of fresh air to listen to two normal dudes applying a red pill perspective to their lives, and who aren't about the "top 5%" success-masturbatory grifterhood.
Typo-MAGAshiv
6 days ago 5th Generation War
@Durek_The_Bald odd, I had thought I had replied to this already.
although for some reason, I can't read what you were replying to
That's because @TiberiusBravo87 deleted his account not too long after that thread.
He also blocked me immediately after I replied this to him
Tag @mentorpheus and @redpillschool for the memories lol
Durek_The_Bald
6 days ago The Public Square
@deeplydisturbed Jew nose. But it might as well had been about his skinny arms.
Durek_The_Bald
about a week ago Tech Talk
@SeasonedRP "Give us one free miracle, and we'll explain the rest"
Durek_The_Bald
about a week ago 5th Generation War
@MarcoCo On that, I'll just refer you to the post @Typo-MAGAshiv linked here (the bit about MRAs Vs. MGTOWs). Bottom line is, women respond to incentives, and "caring about men's struggles" just isn't one. But losing out on men's utility is.
Durek_The_Bald
about a week ago 5th Generation War
@Typo-MAGAshiv Good reply that (although for some reason, I can't read what you were replying to). And yes, do make a forum post about it. Some back-to-the-core TRP content is always needed.
Typo-MAGAshiv
about a week ago 5th Generation War
@Durek_The_Bald I said very similar in this reply here, which I really need to expand into a full forums post one of these days