@Typo-MAGAshiv The dairy aisle analogy would work if you had to pass through Grindr to get to some other stuff on the internet. But so far, I've never seen Grindr being used as a login option. Google, yes. Facebook, yes. Grindr? No.
@Durek_The_Bald ...that's what makes it so funny.
@Vermillion-Rx Swear to God, I only use Grindr to log into TRP.red.
The fact a lot of men are stuck in the blue pill paradigm doesn't mean they don't love their wives
I really do see your point. I know those clueless nice guy bloopers really do "love" their wives
Honestly, I think a lot of that is about 'fear'. Fear of being alone. Fear of not having other options (whether real or imagined). The fear that comes with letting a woman be the judge of you. Fear of ego bruises. The fear that comes with codependency.
It's always the least attractive guys, with the fewest options available to them, and the least experience, who "love" the hardest. So it's not really about "love" - that's just a placeholder for a bunch of other personal issues.
When it comes to whatever would approximate something one could call "real love" (at least in the romantic sense), I don't think women and men are that dissimilar. It's closely tied to "desire", for both. And it comes with a lot of conditions, for both.
All in all, I think the entire concept of "love" is just noise - whether you expect it of yourself, or the women in your life. Because it puts the onus on this metaphysical, magical thing, and takes away focus on the pragmatic, feet-on-the-ground stuff that actually works.
I'd be sceptical of building anything of substance with a woman who's all about "love". Because it's wishy-washy. And I be sceptical of my daughter building anything substantial with a guy who thinks like that too.
Read MoreThe fact a lot of men are stuck in the blue pill paradigm doesn't mean they don't love their wives
I really do see your point. I know those clueless nice guy bloopers really do "love" their wives
Honestly, I think a lot of that is about 'fear'. Fear of being alone. Fear of not having other options (whether real or imagined). The fear that comes with letting a woman be the judge of you. Fear of ego bruises. The fear that comes with codependency.
It's always the least attractive guys, with the fewest options available to them, and the least experience, who "love" the hardest. So it's not really about "love" - that's just a placeholder for a bunch of other personal issues.
When it comes to whatever would approximate something one could call "real love" (at least in the romantic sense), I don't think women and men are that dissimilar. It's closely tied to "desire", for both. And it comes with a lot of conditions, for both.
All in all, I think the entire concept of "love" is just noise - whether you expect it of yourself, or the women in your life. Because it puts the onus on this metaphysical, magical thing, and takes away focus on the pragmatic, feet-on-the-ground stuff that actually works.
I'd be sceptical of building anything of substance with a woman who's all about "love". Because it's wishy-washy. And I be sceptical of my daughter building anything substantial with a guy who thinks like that too.
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Read MoreIt's always the least attractive guys, with the fewest options available to them, and the least experience, who "love" the hardest.
Big exception to that, which renders the "always" untrue: many men don't realize how awesome they really are, and/or get locked down before even hitting their stride.
What if I don't have access to a barbell rack, but I do have access to pizza?
I'm surprised I missed this, but I'm not big on wasting food. Eat your pizza, fatboy. Give yourself an hour, then do some squats.
@Aging-Chad I'm not the one beating my chest here, playing king of the red pillers, whilst crying over my wife's "lack of support".
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