2w ago The Hub
@SwarmShawarma Woman has a toilet full of rubbish and she and 4 kids crap in pots. Social services say "Nothing to see here"
There is a presumption that all women are good mothers. Can you imagine if a father had a similar plumbing problem?
I once rented a flat above some drug addicts. They had a similar plumbing problem (seems to go with being a junkie). I called the police when we got tired of their throwing shit out of the window onto the shared path and a flat roof. The police lady said "If they were throwing shit at you I could do something but they can throw it out the window all day long."
One night they went on a bender and vanished for a day. I saw a chance. We reported them for abandoning the obligatory drug dealer's pit violent bull. You can throw all the shit you like in a western country but you can't leave a dog shut in for more than a morning. The police came at once, broke the door down, eventually subdued the beast and took it off. Once the police got inside they shut the place down. The landlord got to evict them and get the house back (and spent god knows how much fixing it).
In the west dogs have more rights to be protected from bad owners than kids do to be protected from dysfunctional mothers.
Read More1w ago The Hub
@itsovER Having read through this, I can see you are doing stuff you think will make you more attractive and still not getting the results you want.
They won't find out about your tiny cock till they are already invested enough to be taking it. Its rare a man gets dumped or cucked for having a small cock. It happens but its actually rare. Furthermore you can only get dumped or cucked by having been banging a girl. These guys still get to do that. Being able to fight is of minimal benefit to most women today. How many guys are there who are getting laid who don't go to a gym? -most of them. Women like what benefits them. You are working on making yourself what you think is an attractive man not being an attractive man.
You have said you fear failure. That is why you have disappeared into your own universe where you make yourself more attractive to yourself. Its only bad if you create a world in which you are not good enough.
Read More1w ago The Hub
@efficientusername Miscarriages can really chew women up. I know from experience. Finding something to dive into in order to drown their sorrow is not uncommon. Its very hard to know how to help them because the problem is one of grief and that doesn't respond too well to logic. Healthy grieving is more use than anything.
I think its worth talking to her about goals. If her goal is to start a family, she needs to work towards that and being busy and stressed is not a great help. The promotion presumably comes with extra pay and that will be great on maternity pay. It is (thanks to crazy western liberal culture) socially and legally acceptable for highly paid women to be pretty useless to a business around pregnancy and maternity. So the sooner she gets pregnant again the better as she can then worry less about work as she has an excuse, either for not being effective or for stepping down for an honourable reason (women fear to fail in the eyes of other women).
I would encourage her to look to her real goals and take steps to make them happen. She is more likely to achieve the goal of motherhood if she prioritises health and that means lowering stress. If she can see herself as taking positive action by easing back on the work side, it will be easier. Self image is a big thing here. She may even be afraid to concentrate on pregnancy for fear she fails to achieve it. Here she needs help with self belief.
You need to help free her internal drivers from social obligation so they can lock on to what she really wants. The social group is important to women. The more social interaction you can get in your social circle with mothers rather than career women the better but it needs to be positive, not risking making her feel a failure for not yet being in their club. It needs to be inspirational and aspirational.
She also needs to interact with you. Its easy to think she is too busy (probably she is most of the time) but if you are going to help her move away from the empty world of work, you are going to need to be present in her thoughts as an alternative to work. So you are going to need to seek slots in her schedule to do stuff you know she likes and that makes her feel connected with you. ("Feel" and "connection" are sadly bigger for women than logic a lot of the time). I don't mean make time for stuff that leads to sex -you do that anyway.
On the subject of sex, if you want to get her pregnant trust your intuition and just do her when you fancy, regardless of if you are both fully clothed and have to go somewhere in 10 minutes, regardless of if you can make a good session of it or not. She will be receptive if its the right time (unless too stressed to function normally), so just do it. Men's intuition is a lot better than they realise if they and their women just trust it. All other male animals seem to know. Why should humans be different?
Read More1w ago Ask TRP
@OPStolen This sounds risky. Maybe you were unlucky last time but imagine if you were unlucky this time as well. It might start to look like more than bad luck, like maybe you were a bad guy/ bad boss. This might not play out well.
Women are attracted to men with any sort of power/ authority. How you deal with it is your choice but these days there seems to be a fashion on for saying "Its the man's fault, he abused his power" not "She couldn't help being a slut" Things were different in the recent past and men and women both had more fun but that's the reality today. I would advise men to be very cautious.
Women also like to use their sexual draw as a way to gain power/ attention from men in work scenarios. Talking it all up to make men thirsty (whether or not to then put out) can give them great validation and power. I can't see how this is particularly good for men though. At best their energy is wasted. When its pointed at your its hard to see past thirst but when its pointed at another guy and you are watching, he does look somewhat silly as she manipulates him.
Be wary. Once you have shot your load up her a few times and the burning urge cools, how will it all look to you and others?
Read More1w ago The Hub
@itsovER Why get it professionally tested? Because you have a passion for IQ? If so, yeah I will believe you. IQ quizzes get easier if you practise a few but this sort of interest in the subject suggests a type of personality that can struggle to see outside its own blinkers and this may be the issue here more than high IQ. Having a high IQ per se should not stop you going with feeling but being a bit OCD/ autistic might (while also leading to practising a lot of IQ quizzes or the sort of stuff that makes you good at them like mental math and problem solving).
It is important to know one's self. You can totally get laid if you are a bit OCD/ autistic but you need to work around yourself and be aware that you at higher risk than most of diving too deep into personal passions that are not attractive to others and that your self image may be distorted by things that you dive too deeply into.
Read More1d ago The Hub
@deeplydisturbed I kept thinking the same. "There is nothing new under the sun" as the Roman satirist wrote.
So they knew what female nature was like back then. So was it the feminists not the trad cons who outlawed it then? I had tended to think it was a Victorian trad con thing where women were all angels of the hearth but maybe that was just a competing theory held only by the middle classes?
I know what you mean about our grandparents. I imagine they did have some pretty intense times on leave in the war but once they got home they settled down to steady blue pilled life it seemed.
One thing I would note is that I think there were still good girls and bad girls back then. Good girls were rarely worth making movies about though. Now they are all educated to think they are the star of their own movie and good girls are about as rare as movie stars.
Read More1d ago Ask TRP
@Thecomputerguy1989 Don't give up on your friend. Many good men have bad years/ decades, when they really screw up. Your friend is going to need you when she brings him down.
Just keep quietly red pilling him when he complains about her, tell him why what is happening is happening, show him there is another life out these. Try to avoid over doing it in case he (his mistress) cancels you. Even if that happens don't give up. The friendship of men is precious. Its the only thing a man can have that comes for free and won't leave him when he is down.
8mo ago The Hub
@Vermillion-Rx It should read "Boys must be indoctrinated"
Lets hope he grows out of his indoctrination. One imagines that watching his mum's life on the carousel may be his first red pill. -Hooped earrings, tramp stamp, tight clothing, painted toe nails, ankle bracelet, she likes to showcase her body as an asset. He will see what she does to men and learn to see through the female game.