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First-light
5d ago  The Hub

@deeplydisturbed That is pretty much exactly my view on her too.

I probably couldn't stand a single evening in her company even if I didn't have to spend any money but I think my poor friend would probably catch oneitis from a similar dose.

Having the luxury of choice as to one's response to attractive women is one of the few good things about getting older. I do sometimes wonder whether its life experience or homones or both. Presumably older guys who go on TRT actually find out how big the hormone component is.

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6d ago  The Hub

@deeplydisturbed This "band" was drawn to my attention by my 50 something bachelor friend. He has always had a thing for attractive posh girls who love themselves. In fact that little quirk of his is why he is still single, having "waited for the one" while casually banging the many and then always been been used and dumped by the posh pretty and self loving girl he goes all in for once a decade or so.

I just thought "Gosh even if you were Marcus from Chelsea with an Aston Martin, she would be too much metal maintenance" Strangely, however, when he showed it to my daughters, they thought it was cool too. So what would I know.

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1w ago  The Hub

@Typo-MAGAshiv Bees dance in hives, to indicate where the valuable resources are.

Cheer leaders dance to indicate that there is value in the young males who compete on the field (and in the hive members too).

Its just in the biology of both hives. However if one takes spirit as life, then yes it is the life in them that makes them do their little dances.

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1w ago  TheRedPill
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@Typo-MAGAshiv I agree with both your statements.

Politely avoid was my main advice but if it fails and he can't her turning up expecting orbiting behaviour, then set out a boundary that has to be respected in work place culture not block and ignore as this makes him look like the problem.

It would have been better had I written "He no longer aims to bang her" "Want" can mean a lot of things -both desire and intention. "I don't want to smoke any more" is a similar statement to what he is saying. Of course deep down inside he wants to bang her but he has accepted that wanting to is messing up his head as it makes him orbit pitifully.

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1w ago  TheRedPill
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@Typo-MAGAshiv But he does not want to bang her any more. He is not trying to impress her with his unbreakable manhood. He wants rid.

In a work setting it helps to use the power language of our day. People are not allowed to hurt each other within the workplace. She is essentially abusing her relationship with an orbiter by making it entirely one sided. He is quite within his rights to say "This hurts, and I want it to stop" and the system will then back him if she transgresses.

You can leave the word "hurt" out or change it slightly if you fear it will shrink your pee pee. I thought it was rather helpful in the work setting where colleagues who hurt each other are punished.

I also really don't see a problem with a man acknowledging his feelings. Being tough is not about having no feelings its about being in control of them.

"Girls can't hurt me" Is one way that the blue pill makes men simp. The blue pill lets women behave badly to men and men are supposed to be rocks that just take it or else they are pussies who can't man up enough. The red pill says "This hurts. I deserve better and I am going to have better"

If you look all pitiful and beg to be left alone its weak. I, however think a man can say "I am not getting anything out of this. It hurts me to be putting myself out there and be ignored and flaked on all the time then have your emotional shit dumped on me. Its one sided and I am out, please do not contact me again" If he says this politely in a manly way it is simply a true statement of his frame. We don't have to act all the time.

Why else does he want rid of a hot woman's presence? Its only because he is only getting misery from her? Why fake this up as anything else? Call it what it is. We are big enough to and the system in this case will actually back him up if she transgresses. If however he appears to be having a pissy fit, flounces out on her and ignores her then the system says he is a bit of a dick to a colleague and backs her.

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1w ago  TheRedPill
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@Typo-MAGAshiv But this is an office scenario now, she is hot and the place is full of simps. If he really can't just back off from her and she keeps dumping her emotional crap on her and seek orbiter support, he needs to have this talk with her or he is open to being accused of being passive aggressive, an arsehole or whatever for ignoring her and simps will come to her aid.

Sometimes a boundary has to be formally laid out or you are just perceived as causing the problem, not trying to avoid it. Once the boundary is established, then the other person is the aggressor when they cross it.

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1w ago  TheRedPill
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@IDoCeramicHoles Basically do nothing. It won't help you to involve yourself with her and it won't help you to actively distance yourself from her as it will look bad on you in the eyes of everyone she will be impressing.

Aim to have the most minimal involvement possible with her. Always keep it friendly. As she works her way into everyone's good books, she will be less of a pain to you. She will find higher up men to be seeking attention from.

If she still becomes a pain, calmly explain that this is a one sided relationship that is hurting you by wasting your time and energy and you do not wish to continue it. Show no bitterness, just politely ask her to not contact you again for anything not work related and then ignore anything from her after that.

Very selfish hot women almost always get away with bad behaviour at work -just not pulling their weight or keeping agreements but you will gradually find people tire of her. She is also unlikely to remain that interested in talking to you. You are a safe orbiter for her while she is new in the company. She will want to add more orbiters and seek out men she is actually attracted to, all this will take the heat off you, so play it cool. It will most likely get better by itself.

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1w ago  The Hub

@SeasonedRP Hardly anyone in the establishment in politics, arts, or capitalism is actually right wing. They might say they are from a party on the right but actually all that means is right of centre. Pre Trump, centre was moving left for about 100 years.

Centre is now so far left that the left wing politicians off the past would be horrified at the unthinkable left wing social and ethical views expressed today by some of the right. Would anyone who voted for women's suffrage have done so if they could have seen the men and women it would produce and the destruction it has wrought on the family? Would those who invented state welfare be happy with the way it has damaged generations of the underclass? Would the men who came back left wing from the two world wars have ever wanted to see the cuck states we now have in the west? Would the heterosexuals who decided to permit homosexuality to be legal on compassionate grounds have been happy with the transgender kids in school and the homosexual marriages?

Until 10 years ago the only debate that has been permitted in establishment circles for the last 100 years has been "how far left should we move next?" "The trend is your friend" has worked for the establishment for about 100 years, they are all lefties now. They would not have survived otherwise.

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2w ago  The Hub

@Typo-MAGAshiv At least a hard on is getting pushed. Having a hard on and not getting to push it is a pain.

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carnold03
2w ago  5th Generation War

@First-light

Churches appeal to women because the Christian god just forgives you if you feel sorry. Women feel sorry plenty and sometimes they cry about it. Men's patience gets worn out with them not actually staying sorry. But God seems OK about it so long as you say sorry before you die, then you get a free ride for the after life.

To get a free ride in life a girl needs a good beta (and a spare if she is wise). To get a free ride in the afterlife, she just has to say sorry when she feels sorry.

Is it any wonder the churches are full of women?

It's no wonder at all. God helps all in this world who are passionate and psychopaths are quite passionate about helping themselves.

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