I think most guys misunderstand Frame because they don't even know what they want.
If you don't know what you want, how the fuck is anyone supposed to be in your frame?
Guys obsess over holding Frame while simultaneously wanting plates, exclusivity, unlimited options, loyalty, excitement, peace, commitment, and zero compromises. Life doesn't work like that.
The longer I date, the more convinced I become that you can't have your cake and eat it too.
The women who gave me the most excitement rarely gave me the most peace.
The women who gave me the most peace rarely gave me the most excitement.
Every choice comes with tradeoffs.
Frame isn't just enforcing boundaries. It's knowing what you actually want and being honest about the tradeoffs required to get it. Once you've figured that out, enforcing boundaries becomes the easy part. The hard part was deciding what mattered to you in the first place.
Read MoreShe came running back two weeks later with her tail between her legs.
The last 3 months have been bliss.
Read up on hysteric bonding, especially at MRP.
This might not actually be that, but brace yourself in case it is (which is highly likely).
Boys, I'm so happy right now with my current GF.
Maga was half right about the dual mating strategy showing up. I shut that shit down. Broke up with her over a boundary I'd already communicated once. Instead of arguing or explaining it a second time, I just ended it. She came running back two weeks later with her tail between her legs.
The last 3 months have been bliss. Everything I could have wanted, and more. It feels like a honeymoon phase after another honeymoon phase after another, and somehow it just keeps getting better. My career's taking off too.
Wouldn't be here without you guys. <3
@Baron i see where your coming from, but i disagree.
I think the only thing that makes your frame congruent here is confidence.
Polarity has always done wonders. Polarity in itself can be peacocking as long as you have the confidence to match it. It doesn't sound like your example would work, but thats because you haven't seen it.
I know a guy who is absolutely jacked, he's huge, does steroids of course. But he drives a pink golf.
He gets a lot of girls and their attention whereever he goes.
@SwarmShawarma I wonder where will they dump all the lithium instead of burrying them in desserts
@Victor It's all manufactured.
There was a oversupply of pistachio and so someone came up with Dubai chocolate as a way of selling them.
Apparently Iran is one of the worlds biggest suppliers of pistachios, so they started growing them in the US and the Dubai chocolate craze switched over US consumption from Iran imports to California. Cutting off Iran's exports.
Perhaps some coinage / carnage will help to clarify… the choice is, as always, yours.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Yeah, it’s mostly just FOMO marketing and people pretending to like it. It’s this weird herd mentality thing where people get to signal how “exquisite” their taste is. But this one’s funny because, like you said, it just tastes mildly interesting, as if nobody’s ever had a fkn pistachio before, and it looks like Shrek’s jizz after violating you for an entire summer.
Speaking of which, if you can market yourself to girls, or society in general, the same way pistachio chocolate markets itself, or really any product that’s relatively cheap to produce but sells at a massive markup, you already have a solid foundation in game. A lot of game is basically the ratio between perceived value and actual production cost.