@imtranscending That girl has tramp-tell tattoos and in 10 years both arms will look like a junk drawer spill. She's signalling she wants bad boys to hit on her, and here you are asking her out yet again to a vag-dessicating coffee date.
Look elsewhere and keep churning prospects, young Chadawan.
Same with the night game. Try different types of venue, and do things with groups not primarily to prospect for women but to build your social and bantering skills.