Read MoreHelp me understand this shit with my ex...
So, about a month ago my ex wanted to break up because I did not care enough which is total bullshit. I said ok, have it your way, you were not a loyal person to begin with.
After that, she texted me a couple of times saying do you really think so little of me and crap like that. I have short, IDGAF answers and that was it.
Today, she calls me crying, telling me she has some urgent shit to discuss (work-related). We work at the same company and sometimes see each other.
Granted, it was not work-related. She said she could not move on, process that I didnt give a fuck, that it was so easy for me to forget her and so forth.
Then she hugged and kissed me. I just said "take care of yourself". She started crying, went for another kiss which I rejected. Then she pulled a drawing of me (LOL) and said "please dont throw it out" and left crying.
I know she was no longer interested in me and seems like the only thing that keeps her coming back is that I have zero shits and moved on, but still, if she was the one that ended our relationship, why pull this crap?
She acted and did stuff that tells me she wanted me to say "lets get back together", but I know even if I was dumb enough to say that it would have gone back to a shitty relationship.
Anyway. She ended it, OK by my, but why pull this shit?
Help me understand this shit with my ex...
So, about a month ago my ex wanted to break up because I did not care enough which is total bullshit. I said ok, have it your way, you were not a loyal person to begin with.
After that, she texted me a couple of times saying do you really think so little of me and crap like that. I have short, IDGAF answers and that was it.
Today, she calls me crying, telling me she has some urgent shit to discuss (work-related). We work at the same company and sometimes see each other.
Granted, it was not work-related. She said she could not move on, process that I didnt give a fuck, that it was so easy for me to forget her and so forth.
Then she hugged and kissed me. I just said "take care of yourself". She started crying, went for another kiss which I rejected. Then she pulled a drawing of me (LOL) and said "please dont throw it out" and left crying.
I know she was no longer interested in me and seems like the only thing that keeps her coming back is that I have zero shits and moved on, but still, if she was the one that ended our relationship, why pull this crap?
She acted and did stuff that tells me she wanted me to say "lets get back together", but I know even if I was dumb enough to say that it would have gone back to a shitty relationship.
Anyway. She ended it, OK by my, but why pull this shit?
Read More@mkeehl had you never seen it before?
He made it the first chapter in his first book, if memory serves.
Have you never read the first "Rational Male" book? It's essential reading, man.
My smartass still thinking about finding the "right" one
There is no "one", so there is no "right one".
How do guys who have no idea about who women really are keep relationships going for years?
Frequently by putting up with shit they don't realize that they don't have to endure.
Do I attract the wrong type of girls for some reason, or is it that I'm just aware of their nature and I cannot tolerate their actions, disrespect, and so forth? How do guys who have no idea about who women really are keep relationships going for years? Just a delusion? My smartass still thinking about finding the "right" one even though my relationships never last more than a year and I embrace the concept of AWALT. The longest one I've had lasted for three years and ended miserably. If you guys have thought about this, what conclusion did you come to?
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