@AFTSOV Too much of a good thing. The same girl, different girl, 18 different girls is irrelevant to the refractory period. That ultimately comes down to what's in your head. I've had similar issues in similar circumstances and have chalked it up to a few possibilities/probabilities:

1. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze. Either the girl isn't performing as I want (absent enthusiasm), the girl isn't as tight as I want (wrong friction), the girl isn't attractive enough, or one of a thousand reasons why the girl is creating a reason why I'm just not into it.

2. Pussy is just pussy. At some point it becomes less important and less priority...especially after recent post nut clarity kicks in.

3. Absence of emotional connection. Contrary to popular belief, men have emotions outside of anger and aggression we sometimes need/want to be fulfilled. Similar to number 2 above once that physical need of busting a nut is satisfied more is required emotionally to be physically responsive. This is when we are more inclined to be more interested in working through an issue with a car engine instead of fucking...our mind just isn't interested after that first nut.

Just my $0.02. Only you can answer the question that you pose.

Just read "the rational male", What's next? and My views.

TRM by Tomassi is one hell of a book that every man on this planet should definitely read.

If I had to summarize his book in the most basic way possible, It will be-

"Become a high-value man, a high-value man is what women want because he is THE MAN. To become a high-value man focus on yourself, improve yourself, hit the gym, study hard to get a better job (Imma a student), mean what you say i.e don't negotiate to please a woman".

This book also teaches you about many social dynamics and behavioral concepts.

It was my first book and it was also my introduction to the TRP world.

Now, I'll like to get some advice, I have many other TRP books (Thanks to someone I know). I have mentioned them below. I will like to know If you want me to remove or add any book to my reading journey. I am thinking to read books about shit tests and then study the game.

With all these books I decided to go on a reading journey. I need to know about the game before I can apply the concepts mentioned in TRM.

The reading journey below is ordered i.e I will be reading books as I have mentioned them in order- Reading Journey

-TRM (COMPLETED)

-Book of Pook (STARTED)

To pass the shit test:

-No more Mr. Nice guy

-When I say no I feel guilty

-How to win friends and influence people

For Game:

• c&f, mystery method, Bang & Game. (I chose multiple for multiple scenarios).

-The game by Neil Strauss. (I guess many people don't like it but I think it will be a good instruction manual).

The following are just for getting more educated:

-The art of seduction

-Get anyone to do Anything

-the 48 laws of power

-sex god method