I thought this might come up, I should make it clear that I'm not proposing men to be passive and beta to provide for women, that would be counter-intuitive to everything TRP has developed so far.
Let me clarify:
The dominance and aggression for getting what we want needs to be recalibrated towards a partnership with women in building a better society via being a dominant leader rather than a dominant tyrant who reaps all the rewards and shares nothing.
I believe women are acting up because they lack the leadership of strong men, and there is a vacant opportunity for TRP to fill that void.
Dominator Society vs Partnership Society
In this brief essay I will cover two different perspectives that work towards a goal that is closely related, but diverge toward separate outcomes and why I believe The Red Pill needs to align itself to a mutually beneficial goal before the bell tolls.
For those unfamiliar with the term, the dominator society is depicted as such:
where fear and force maintain rigid understandings of power and superiority within a hierarchical structure
While there is room to manoeuvre within the details of the definition, I would hope that we could agree that we live in such a society. We need only look at the recent headlines to see who is protected from who within the unspoken hierarchical structure.
Now, by virtue of the fact that I'm typing this on an expensive laptop to other men who have similar access and freedoms to converse with each other in such a manner we can also safely assume that we are placed within this hierarchy to some comfortable degree. However, what we are not, is free from the confines of this hierarchy. We cannot step outside of it, for fear of losing our standing. We cannot rally against it for fear of losing it entirely. The fear is from within, and the force is applied via petty cash once monthly.
Again, I must reiterate the fair standing we find ourselves within this society to make it clear that this essay isn't some anti-capitalist communist manifesto, I'm simply setting the stage for the unfolding drama.
What this dominator society once gave us men, it now takes from us two fold. Where once upon a time men were free to choose their own path and be pioneers, we are now cattle following behind those in front of us. While this seems like an overly dramatic vision of our lives, you have to admit it pales in comparison to the potential lives of our ancestors who claimed things for themselves. So now we see the men become pale and hunched at their desks with overgrown and scruffy beards slapping their dicks about to hundreds of internet thots on the daily because thats the outlet.
But what of these internet thots I just mentioned? From all of my time on The Red Pill, I rarely if ever see their situation mentioned in the same light as ours. The perversion and degeneracy that has crept into the daily lives of men around the globe has struck women in the same way. The aforementioned pioneering ancestors who gave way to the pale modern boys... those are their leaders. Fat and dishevelled, poorly spoken and narcissistic men are leading our governments and leaving impressions on young fatherless boys, who venture out into the world and completely fail to lead the women in the right direction.
The dominator society gave way to a complacent society, a society that grew fat and loathsome on its prior achievements. The day was won a long time ago, flags were set in the dirt and lines were drawn on the maps. There is nothing left to dominate but our own pitiful selves.
The divergent path, the yin and yang, and the path I firmly believe The Red Pill should look towards in earnest for its future. If, like me, you've wondered where The Red Pill journey goes after you've spun plates and completely immersed yourself in the new paradigm and come up short, it's no surprise. There never was a next chapter waiting, much like everything in life the reality was somewhat disappointing.
The Red Pill teaches you to be a dominant man and it teaches you how to apply those new traits to a dominator society, but unfortunately for us, that doesn't mean the society is no less in decline.
I have a feeling though, that there is a corner to be turned if we can take the approach of The Red Pill and apply it to yet another paradigm. Unbeknownst to most who frequent TRP, we are still neck deep in an identity politics game, we're just playing to an advantage and know how to win. What if we change the rules to rig a game that is mutually beneficial? It's quite clear to everyone here that some people are simply opting out of playing because they can't win. The behaviour of women today is reflected by children who throw a tantrum and storm off. Your plates break because you're so hell bent on your own satisfaction that you forgot to lead them in the right direction.
TRP as is, is a perpetuation of degenerate modernity. We aren't crafting strong leaders who will guide women away from mind warping sites like Chaturbate or GoneWild. We are crafting self absorbed men who are in it for themselves. Great on an individual short term basis, but the long term benefits aren't there. The women are abandoned by us as much as their fathers abandoned them and gave them their underlying issues to begin with. Why are we not seeing these women and their behaviour as direct results from the men in their lives? We have all become better men in the most important aspects from the lessons we have learnt here, we should be using this advantage to force a cultural shift that brings women back to following strong men, and make no mistake, we are in a position to effect this change.
I'm not advocating marriage or LTRs, I'm saying we should be looking for the partnership of the genders that our ancestors enjoyed. Our ancestors didn't come home from work to find their wife protesting their rights, they came back with the reward of food from the hunt to rest and be fed, knowing their children were well cared for. The women did this because they knew they could rely on the strong men in their tribes to provide for them what they provided in return. Trust, faith, children, warmth, comfort. If the men of today cannot provide even one of those things to women today, what hope do we have that we can expect them to provide us with anything?
This paradigm shift requires a monumental effort of mental fortitude and signs of maturity becoming of a man to provide first to be provided for in return. A child will petulantly stamp its feet until the heat death of the universe before it ever provides to you first, don't be that child. Instead, be the kind of partner our ancestors were to each other to bring the best out of the women in your life.
I believe the time of the dominator society has drawn to a close, simply because the dominant ways of men is no longer providing a better life for the men and women, and its about time we started being better men so that the women in our lives relearn how to be better women, for the sake of not just our future, but for that of our children and generations to come.... because the alternative is becoming unbearable.
As ever, these are preliminary thoughts which will be ironed out through discussion, but I hope I have conveyed the substance of the concept. Due to the coming changes to the public square, I will be detailing these thoughts further in my tribe /t/McKenna over the coming weeks and months.Read More