@NeoSpartan As a general rule period sex not worth it. Just wait it out, if you and/or her are jonesing that bad for a screw then just do it in the shower or bathtub. That way you just hose yourselves off and no need to use hydrogen peroxide on sheets, towels, clothes etc.
@carnold03 Did I say eat out? Gross dude, no. Actually have never done that, it seems like it wouldn't be enjoyable.. expecially if she was bleeding.. Nah just reg PIV. Was fine, got a bit of blood on my dick and the bedsheets but w/e, showers exist as do washing machines. Anyway, if you ever fuck a virgin it's a similar deal isn't it? Worse actually, because she will probably also be in pain.
The issue isn't knowing if its quackery or not, it's fear of social opprobrium, censure and loss of employment/grants for not going along with the narrative dude. Hierarchy is real af, always has been always will be. Natural human condition that.