Guys I need help. I'm 21 living in a small country. I was in a 3 year relationship. I broke up because she chose to go abroad. I traveled a bit through asia and got laid with a 24 year old and a 25 year old as a 20 year old. It was same day lays. I had no problem with that. Comfort, location change, flirty push pull, physical escalation. Back to my place for a coffee. I know how to do that stuff. Now I'm back in my country. Apps don't work here. I went to a big city with night life and I didn't like it. In the clubs and bars were just 30+ people because it's so fucking expensive. A few young guys were in the park drinking but I guess they were friends. I don't smoke and drink. Beeing the only sober guy and only have older people around me sucks.

I also don't want a woman who does my sport (muay thai). I have no friends because I moved from one side to the other of the country in a small village. So social game doesn't work.

I also tried shopping malls but there were just beta males sponsoring their gf's. I already work so going to the university library also isn't a option. People from work are also all like 30+.

So I'm asking myself where the fuck should I meet woman. I have no problem seducing woman. But I have no volume. I do hesitate with approaching woman yes but I don't even get in such situations. I drive to work by car so I'm also not in public transport places. I have no idea where guys my age are or where the social gatherings take place.

Speaking with random people is not a problem. I went to a meetup and spoke with everyone. I even moderated a event on a stage Infront of 100s of people once.

I'm stuck in this country for at least the next 4 years. How the fuck am I supposed to meet woman and spin plates?