How to be a good person without sounding like a nice guy? I just enjoy helping people without expecting anything in return (OF COURSE if they deserve it. I'd never help an asshole). People, however, sometimes confuse my benevolence with beta behaviour and/or opportunism. Should I just become an asshole? Seems like they actually want to be treated like shit.
@Exidian yeah, I guess we could start discussing in this tribe. My main problem with escalating resides in the fact that I don't feel comfortable escalating in casual environments (school, gym, etc.). I feel like a tryhard, as if flirting and kino were out of place in that certain situation. I, however, have no problems escalating at parties and clubs.
Yo guys! 18 years old here. My story is a little bit different from yours. I used to be pretty liked among girls until 14. That's when I became extremely socially awkward with everyone, especially girls. I was not a nice guy, but I literally had no clues on how to discuss properly. As if I forgot everything I've learned in my lifetime. After a mild depression I met theredpill and started my journey at 17. That was the ABSOLUTE FUCKING BEST THING that could have happened to me. It completely changed me. Fun fact, all the people I meet think I'm some king of pussy destroyer, but I'm still a virgin. 4 years of 0 self esteem still have some kind of influence on me, even though girls send positive signals to me all the time. Just need to get better on escalation. I hope this tribe could reach more people like us, because trp is truly a great thing. Keep going boys
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