The mythical “Chad Simp” manifesto.
This is ideal for most modern women. A man who:
What else did I miss?
Behold boys. This is the future of Europe and North America.
@deeplydisturbed This seems like a very male fantasy actually. The woman he loves tells him what she wants from him, and when he does it she is impressed and takes him back.
This is what men want romance to be like. If I just jump through enough hoops, eventually she will be impressed and love me the way I love her.
In reality, "I will do whatever you tell me", even if true, is usually not attractive to women, and jumping through hoops is no guarantee she won't simply go for another man. Such a mindset simply turns you into a people pleaser whose fate is to be used up and discarded.
if you just treat her like the slut she wants to be, she will love you more than if you treat her like the queen you think she is.
If you treat a woman like a queen, she'll view you as a peasant.
what about love though? Or is that an unrealistic expectation too?
Love is real, but it's not what you've been conditioned to long for. Time to let go of the blue pill idealism.
@Chantfire Congrats man! My first kid just knocked off his first year. Changed several formulas--first time moms' breastmilk can be less than the ideal amount--Kendamil goat milk based formula is what worked for us. Yeah, similac made him cry all night even after the adaptation period.
That Dr. Brown formula dispenser saves a shit ton of time and energy.
Expect your wife's behavior to change. Long term sleep deprivation changes people a lot. You're just gonna have to take up most of the house chores for a while--or hire a nanny if you can afford it, idk. ideally though, have either her or your mom at your place for a while to assist.
Don't buy too many clothes at once, they grow in size fast.
South Africa
Damn son. @Chantfire pls tell us South Africa stories.
My experiences with South Africa have always been crazy.