@AFTSOV Yeah, a bit of reflection isn't a bad thing.
But when it becomes a robotic breakdown more based in autism...that's something else.
@AFTSOV Yeah, a bit of reflection isn't a bad thing.
But when it becomes a robotic breakdown more based in autism...that's something else.
@BOOTYDESTORYER69 Hahaha, I enjoyed taking the piss out of guys.
Was a good way to get some separation from the 'sphere. Instead of feeling like 'omg, omg, give me all your wisdom', I was laughing at half of these weird dudes.
Creepy motherfuckers running Youtube redpill university. Little short ass Canadian dude who NO chick would this is hot in real life. Joedee, talking to himself on Reddit threads with two different handles. Fucking larpers who don't even lift weights.
Shit's comedy gold.
@jprdl Bro, the general world population is between 40% to 50% under 30.
In some western countries, the 20 to 25 age group is 10% or less, but that's the same for most following five year age brackets. 25 to 30, 30 to 35, 35 to 40 etc etc.
So believing age puts a guy in some imaginary top 10% is false. You could be 23 and fucking women, or 43 and fucking women. Both ages make up about the same percentage of population.
Fuck outta here with that quick reply stuff, bro.
@Antelope Yeah, it originated from some OKCupid survey. Poor evidence base.
@AFTSOV Lmao, yeah, but how many times have you see in ASKtrp some variation of ...
'Oh man, if you had said xxxx after she said xxxx, you would have caused her hamster to go into overdrive. Then, if you'd waited 4.37 days and msgd her with xxxx, she would have percieved you as ALPHA.'
You know what all these bullshit minutia of details really signal? Fear. Fear froma bunch of guys who don't have a single clue what they're doing so want a false sense of control.
A large part of the manosphere just wants a false sense of control. The internet is a great place to source that illusion. Illusions that you know what you're doing, illusions you're a heavily experienced guy who can charge hundreds, illusion you must be on the money with hundreds of Reddit upvotes.
Fuck...OUTTA HERE.
Like, for example, I just noticed the autism right now by the guys in the IRC chat;
'you could've said: "you misunderstood me, I'm saying sucks you missed cus " cus that's a pull the "HAHA SUX" is a push then she might go awwwh he's not a complete dickhead etc etc
FormerNiceGuy:
Totally. Right and let her wrestle with that for a whole instead
10/10 feedback tho
Like, for fucks sake. If a guy is having a conversation with a girl, thinking 'Ok push now...now pull' and thinking it will create result x, y, or z...then he's lost as fuck.
How about just have a normal, fun conversation?
Oh yo hey! I'm still up in dis bitch!
Bro, I'm not sure how to totally answer that, but I know for myself it pays to take a step back and view it from a macro sense.
Let's contextualize it. A majority of guys who understand becoming 'high value', 'pursuing mission', having priorities etc, but seem to spend an inordinate amount of time on Reddit.
Some guys who claim superior IQ's and being more culturaly and intellectually aware than 'beta bluetards', but who seem to enjoy wasting their time arguing with a screen full of strangers they will never meet.
A fucking ton of guys who claim to have all the knowledge, creating courses worth hundreds, but who don't have any qualifications in the field of working with others.
Stupid statistics and rules which totally disregard shit you see in front of your very eyes.
A tendency to push extreme, black and white views of the world.
Listen, I love some of the info I've gotten from Red Pill. There are times when bits of information come into my head and help a situation make sense.
I dunno. The manosphere was a lot more awesome when it literally was just guys trading notes on women they fucked.
Now it's morphed into a very bland, weird thing with mostly a bunch of young, dumb inepxerienced guys writing feel-good posts, and weird creepy older dudes who are still stuck on reddit.
Read MoreAbsolutely. In no way do I mean 'give light and love to everyone and happy happy joy joy' bullshit.
Connecting with humans, in all their limitations and problems takes a lot of nuanced skill.
The thing is, at the core, most people WANT good things. People have a deeper desire to do better, grow, learn etc. It's just often messed up by family of origin, society, other experiences. Even if their behaviour is often dysfunctional, it still serves some sort of need. Most people are self serving, self-protecting and our society breeds it.
The problem for most (and many guys) is they put THEIR expectations and investment in people (women).
I think being able to connect with others is real skill. It also involves having a really strong sense of self, self-reliance, meeting your own emotional needs. You can't put those expectations on others. You have to train women, anyway.
You'd be surprised. I work with all sorts of people that society would write off, but almost every one of them will blow you away once they open up about what they truly want. Most are just ridden with fear and other shit.
With women, there is a big part where you have to know 'women are gonna women', and they do have their own reasons for that.
I'm rambling, lmao.
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