This is the most SATISFYING text I’ve ever sent. I actually have a backup chick ready to go on the exact same time I asked her out. This is feels insane. My entire life whenever a girl cancels on me I’d get pissed and be like “I know someone else got her right now”. For the first time IN MY LIFE, I have a backup chick lined up. 2 actually.
I’m hyped.
@Lionsmane8 I thought about it. It’s short term. I’m so used to not pulling anyone that I immediately fell back to beta mode and was thinking “Damn she let me in, I gotta find a way to keep her”. I’m better than that. There’s always another woman and an easier woman. I don’t need to chase anyone. I’m going to ghost until Friday and then hit her up for drinks.
@Vermillion-Rx I’m going to get the “we should move slow” treatment when I’m trying to get the “ONS fuck like rabbits and leave” treatment if I do anything besides ghost until she recontacts me.
I’m open to opinions but I don’t EVER want to be in that situation again.
@Vermillion-Rx I thought it through. I’m just going to ghost and move to the follow-up chick.
Went On Date, She Talked Herself Into Wanting Me, How to Proceed?
I went on a second date with this girl. I was barely responding to questions and barely holding the conversation. She basically led the entire convo and kept saying I was making moves when I wasn’t. Kept saying I was pausing while eating to wait for her to finish, kept saying I was staring into her eyes, kept saying I was so sweet offering her food.
Eventually, we finish and I say we should go for a ride in my car. She was like “Are you even going to ask me if I’m comfortable with that?”. I told her “you’re already walking to my car, you know you want to come with me”.
We go some place secluded and she starts crying. She’s like “No hookup would ever treat me like this. My ex was trash and using me. My parents are trash. My job barely pays me”. I pulled her in and started playing with her tits because I didn’t really care about the trauma dump. She asked if I was really trying to be with her or just wanted to pump and dump. I said “I only focus on the present, we’ll see when we get there”. Cue a long make out session and feeling up her tits and ass.
I’m so madly confused because she literally talked herself into wanting me. I barely said anything and when I did, I was deflecting and giving vague answers.
I’m trying to figure out how to proceed. I know with all that baggage she’s 100% going to cheat. But now I feel really bad because I know the proper thing to do now would be ghost her until she contacts me again to make more plans. I feel this is right because she’s got a ton of baggage and she’s a hoe and she should be proving that she’s worth having around. But, morally, I really want to beta out and start providing.
I’m trying so hard to break this mindset because this is EXACTLY script by script what my ex did. She cried on my shoulder and trauma dumped and I went from barely texting her and only showing up to hook up with her to providing for her and talking about the future and shit.
How do I move forward without regressing?
Read More@Vermillion-Rx I confirmed it. I really got a married woman to go get drinks alone with me. I’m picking her up at work and then dropping her back off there at her car. There’s no fucking way. I can’t believe this. I’m going to tear her up.
I am Maxing Out on Autism, Did I Fuck Up?
So back when I was managing, I hired this woman who’s 26. I’m 22. She moved out of the area and to the place where I used to live because her husband is military. She kept saying when she gets there, if I’m ever down there we should meet up. I didn’t want to say yes to it because I knew she was married but I always wanted to because she didn’t wear her ring all the time and she never backed away when I’d touch her.
I just hit her up and told her I was back home and now we’re meeting up later for drinks.
Am I playing myself or will she actually show up alone for drinks?
My Autism Somehow Won
So I had a date Friday and when I hit her up Sunday for drinks she said she wasn’t feeling it. I’m following her insta and her friends keep popping up on my feed. I decided to be retarded and screenshot one of her friends and ask if she was single. All of a sudden she starts asking what I’m looking for and telling me she wanted to have a convo with me and then said she could drink with me tomorrow.
I have never had my autism actually win. This is wonderful but 100% not game. I just negged.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Ok she didn’t let me cop anything first date. She was really socially awkward and nervous. But she was really flirty and she said “I’m just looking for a friend” but then whispered “with benefits”. So, I left the date and just said “hit me up when you feel like it” and didn’t send any text or get a text after.
I feel like I was being autistic because when we left she stared at me really hard and kept saying she was cold and tired and just wanted to go back home and sleep. I was going to make a move but I didn’t want to pressure it too much because she kept suggesting this was just a warmup to get her comfy. I was going to suggest something else but I didn’t want to suggest going back to her place cause we took separate cars.
But, I think she’ll hit me up tomorrow because she told me she’d be off at 5:30 and said she has nothing to do.
I think it’d be best to, even though I really want to beta out and ask tomorrow, just not text and see when she hits me back up.
Sorry for the long ass speech. Do you think I was okay?
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv We recovered it. I was about to beta out and triple text her but I just let it be and went on with my day. She texted about 20min ago like “hey, what’s up” and I told her “Ima pick you up tonight and you can see for yourself”. Bout to go in.