My girl went on a whole spiel about how some dude working in retail is super cute and how before we met she was thinking about giving him her number and letting him hook up with her.
She then says “but now that I’m with you I don’t even think about him anymore when I go there”
I can 100% guarantee when I go to Philadelphia for my new job she’s gonna be taking the whole pipeline. Now I’ve gotta prepare to cheat once I’m there.
It’s crazy how some dudes really just got it like that. I’ve never had a woman make a move on me or just slide me their number. But I hear from tons of women that when they want a guy they just put themselves on the table for him to take them.
Even when I was ripped, I had girls compliment me but never just hand me a number and basically say “hit me up when you want to fuck”
But I always read here “if a woman wants you, she’ll make the first move. If she isn’t making herself fully available for you, you’re just a placeholder or betabux”
Cruel world.
Should I Trust or Not?
So I got the job. 65k a year, paid for housing in a new state, 12k sign on bonus, potential to make 80k by end of year.
The girl I met in April is still going strong with me. She cooks, listens to me, lets me lead, and follows my directions. I told her “if you decide to cheat, im not going to be mad. Just tell me so I can move on”. She got really offended and swore she’d never cheat and all that. But, we all know the nature of women. She says she’ll be okay with a weekly visit and a phone call every other day. I don’t believe her.
Should I stay loyal in this new state or pre-cheat assuming she’s going to cheat while I’m away? It sounds horrible to type but my blue pill side keeps saying I should trust her. Deep in my heart, I know that shit’s wrong.
@OPStolen Congrats on the job and all.
Because of your move, she has become "Geographically Undesirable." Unless she's willing to move to the same area (at her own expense, don't pay to move her out there) to continue with you, the relationship has necessarily ended.
End things with her kindly. You now have the toolset to vet and connect with a local woman as good or better.
Sucks someone else is going to take my work.
So every time I’ve been with a chick, they give pornstar blowjobs. Just a shit ton of gagging and slobbering. And they’ll always do that shit and claim they give the best blowjobs in the world.
Every time I’m like, “you wouldn’t need to do all that if you just focused on the head”. My girl actually follows my lead when we have sex. I gave her instructions and told her to stop trying to do pornstar gags and actually do some soft licking and kissing. Was the first time I actually got off on some head.
Sucks another dude is going to get a chick that actually gives quality BJs after we’re done. Sucks like hell. Then the next girl for me is going to be back to doing all that porn shit and insist on doing it while I lay back with my eyes close and count down until we get to actual sex. Really sucks.
Read More5min ago, I made a chick throw up on my small ass wiener. I will not accept anymore women saying I have a small peepee
@Vermillion-Rx I have a fetish for Latinas and it’s almost impossible as a Spanish speaking black man to bag one. White dudes can say “Whole La Cuomo Estaz” and Latinas offer to teach them Spanish, make them food, eat their asses. I’m fluent in Spanish but when I speak it’s “You need more practice, your Spanish isn’t good, I can’t understand your Spanish”. Or worse, they switch to English. I never get that open invitation to meet the family and spend a night practicing Spanish with them. So, at this point, if it’s 30yr+ married Latinas that are flirting with me, I’ll bag what I can bag.
Is it easier to get Latinas to cheat than other women?
I can answer this from very specific experience long ago. There was a married butterface Latina (with a very nice ass and legs) who was always extra friendly with me, and there eventually came a time when I was single and escalated with her. Got her to come to my house one afternoon, and this eventually led to some making out. Then she went on a long guilt-ridden rant about her husband, who long story short I believe was neglectful and even abusive toward her, but she stuck with him because young kid together.
After sitting through this she started making out with me again, very enthusiastic kissing but not very responsive to my Roman Hands. Over a long time I worked my way to feeling her up through her clothes... tits, nice ass... but when I finally worked my way further and touched her crotch... it was like a switch flipped and the spell broke. She wasn't going that far and that was the end of our brief affair. Afterward we maintained professional courtesy toward one another and that was that.
Lots more social and religious guilt and pressure in Latin culture than the Bacchanal that America has become even in its supposedly conservative and bible belt areas.
My advice? Work on getting and pursuing IOIs from single women! "Hot Married Latinas" might generate clicks and sell porn, but this demographic will perform below average at IRL lays for your gaming efforts.
Read MoreIs it easier to get Latinas to cheat than other women? I’m weighing my options for how I can fuck before the month is over. I’m a retail store manager and a lot of my customers are latinas that don’t speak english. Next week is the time when a bunch of the same latinas come in to do bill payments. A lot of them openly flirt with me in front of their husbands and some of them flirt with me when they come in to pay by themselves and their husband isn’t with them. Would I be pushing my luck if I asked if one of them wanted to hang out after work or something?
It's generally inadvisable to risk your income going after any female at your place of work or that you otherwise know is in a relationship regardless of her ethnicity. An angry husband, boyfriend, lover, or relative under normal circumstances can be tense, but past experience has taught me that the less English a Latin-American female on the US side of the border speaks, the more likely she's Cartel connected and with the border movement that's been happening the last few years that's gone up by a factor of at least ten. Let the women flirt with you, but charm them into introducing you to any single female friends they have and work with that.
To help, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
Read MoreAny tips on recovering from a Vasectomy? My ex told me “watching a man put on a condom isn’t sexy”. So every time we had sex we free-balled it. I was spending like $200 a week on Plan B’s and getting pregnancy scares all the time. I’m getting the vasectomy so If I ever have the chance to fuck raw again, I can do it and just hide that I’ve got a vasectomy in case she wants to shit test me with a pregnancy scare. It’s scheduled for 10am tomorrow and I have to go to work for 3hrs immediately after. Anyone have tips for recovery or second thoughts?