@Durek_The_Bald when I say direct game, I mean, I don’t tend to do a lot of conversation, mostly let my body language and non-verbal flirting do the work.
Like I said, I don’t know how to “gab” lol
@Durek_The_Bald when I say direct game, I mean, I don’t tend to do a lot of conversation, mostly let my body language and non-verbal flirting do the work.
Like I said, I don’t know how to “gab” lol
@Durek_The_Bald true, but I’m in a small town in the third world working on a project, so calling is really my only option until I’m back stateside.
@destraht understood. To your earlier point, I definitely lack closing skills because this has plagued me in business too.
Any guidelines on how I can improve?
Finding myself enraged with women, need help.
I struggle to move things forward, and very rarely do I see compliance from women as our engagement continues.
They always seem to be doing some kind of power play/shit test bs with me.
I’ll text them, and 5/10 will be enthusiastic, but if I suggest a call, 9/10 drop out.
I don’t intend to be an orbiter, so I’ll just block/remove girls that waste my time, but at this rate, I’m going to end up blocking every woman I speak to!
My style of game is more direct, so maybe that’s a problem, but I really don’t know what the hell I’m going to “gab” with them about.
Their fickle nature is enraging me and coloring my thoughts and attractions towards them.
Now if I were an unattractive loser, this would not be a problem. I’d shut up, looksmaxx, work to get more money, and get more social.
But this is objectively not the case, and I know this because I get complimented from attractive, random women I don’t know all the time, I often match with ultra-attractive girls on OLD, and just generally have gotten the understanding that I’m attractive by observing the way people/women behave around me.
I’m also not some under-confident simp because I’m well aware of my worth, which I’ve built through working out, socialising, being a competitive athlete, and other competence builders.
I don’t mean for any that to come off as boastful, I’m just presenting the facts for what they are.
However, outside of the women that are already sold on me by way of how I look or how they have perceived me in the first 5 seconds, I can’t seem spin a single plate.
If we look at it like a marketing funnel, 95% of women are dropping out at bottom of the top of the funnel.
What am I doing wrong?
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Book recommendations on self confidence?
Let me preface this by saying, I apply myself everyday through action and feel my self-confidence rising as a result.
However, to streamline the improvement and actively engage better self confidence, the addition of a book might be helpful.
I read six principles of self esteem by Nathaniel branden and that was a game changer.
Now I’m looking for something to help me remove my self doubt to let my confidence shine through.
Any recommendations?
@MentORPHEUS I am familiar with this through rollo’s books but you gave me a great reminder at the right time. Thank you.
@TwoInchesOfShaft This is correct. I have stopped responding to her and I can already see her trying to get my attention. Thank you, wise one.