Is this just hypergamy?
Was talking to my friend recently, who let’s say is quite good with women.
I told him a girl I was seeing went to get her car repaired and the guy handling it was trying to impress her. I wasn’t there myself, but she mentioned it to me, as a shit test of course, but mentioned it nonetheless.
He returned with, “yeah, she probably gave him reason to.” (IOIs maybe, not sure.)
And then said that all women will do this, irrespective of your status. You could be Brad Pitt and your women will still respond to “ just feeling good in the moment” — much like a child would. Since they’re emotional, not logical operators.
Fair enough.
If all women are just flirting addicts/respond to “feeling good in the moment” even when they’re with a high status guy, I know it’s not a reflection on me, and it’s just basic hypergamy.
I’m aware the nuance here would be that the higher status you are the less likely it is that someone else can make your girl feel good/occupy her mind that is preoccupied with you.
But regardless, I’d like to know would they be as likely to do this with a high-status guy? Like if she’s buying groceries, someone just makes her feel good so she responds?
Don’t know if I’ve articulated this well enough, but can someone clarify?
Read More@Lone_Ranger Okay, then I will proceed accordingly. Thank you for the good advice.
@Redpillray, I second @Lone_Ranger. It probably isn't about her weight, what bothers you most is that having a stable girl takes away time from the hotties. You just have to decide if the things she provides as she is now make it worthwhile to keep her.
@Lone_Ranger I find her attractive for now. She’s not extremely overweight. She’s 5’8 and 77 kilo. So if she lost 10 kilo, she’ll be fine.
@deeplydisturbed thats the first thing I’m trying to have her fix. Stopped most of her junk food.
How/should I get my girl in shape?
Been with this girl a while. Main reason is she’s 0 drama and super supportive while I’ve been building my business.
Like a propeller.
However, I’ve been seeing a few other girls here and other, one of them a Polish IG model and another equally hot girl.
It’s making me angry with my current girl because I feel like a loser for being involved with a fat girl, giving her my attention. Especially, when I actively cut off my time with the other “hotter” girls to spend time with her.
Despite quite a few attempts, she’s not really getting in shape. She plays lacrosse or some dumb shit, but it’s not helping, and I don’t know if I should continue trying to “fix” her.
The only reason walking away feels so difficult is because she’s been more supportive than any other girl I’ve been with.
Appreciate any thoughts, gents.
Read MoreSo gentlemen I bring you an interesting question today.
I’m finally in a position in life now where I can move out of my home country.
Most of the digital nomad visas are applicable to me. So that puts a lot of great options on the map.
My question is how do I decide where to go? What factors should I think of?
Individually traveling to and trying 15-20 places is at the very least a 60-80 day effort and organising the visas would be a challenge in itself.
I can, at most, try 4-5 places. As a jumping off point, Eastern Europe is appealing to me. I also get along with the women there pretty well. But I’m still unsure what the right move is or how to decide.
All I know is, there need to be pretty girls, I can’t live in isolation.
Appreciate any guidance. Thank you
@TwoInchesOfShaft this is intriguing. Are you saying most people working 8-10 hour days are just screwing around and not actually working and taking the best possible actions during those hours?
Because it does appear that a lot of people talk a big game about how hard they work but when you see their person and who they are, it doesn’t look like someone who has that mentality.
I’ve been thinking about money a lot and I wonder, what separates the winners from the losers in this game?
If I look at sport, it’s hard work. The man willing to train himself to the bone will win.
The more skilled man.
Here it seems like hard work is not enough or construction workers would be the highest paid people in the world.
Everyone seems to be “working hard”, but only a select few make it.
What’s the edge?
