Haven’t posted here in a while but wanted some advice.
Been dating this girl for close to a year now and live together - the past 3 weeks we’ve been arguing daily it seems.
It always that I never want to have sex with her or give her affection.
I try to tell her that the constant complaining just perpetuates the cycle and I’m not going to wanna have sex with someone I am constantly arguing with.
It’s like a never ending loop and I just can’t imagine making out/being affectionate with someone who I immediately associate with nagging everytime I’m near her.
I do care about her and our relationship was perfect - never argued about anything until the past few weeks. Literally only about being affectionate etc
I’ve been working a lot and tired every day so usually I just want to relax when I get home but she complains I never spend time with her etc.
What should I do? I really can’t force myself to have sex with someone that I’m not in the mood to have sex with.
Read MoreHaven’t posted here in a while but wanted some advice.
Been dating this girl for close to a year now and live together - the past 3 weeks we’ve been arguing daily it seems.
It always that I never want to have sex with her or give her affection.
I try to tell her that the constant complaining just perpetuates the cycle and I’m not going to wanna have sex with someone I am constantly arguing with.
It’s like a never ending loop and I just can’t imagine making out/being affectionate with someone who I immediately associate with nagging everytime I’m near her.
I do care about her and our relationship was perfect - never argued about anything until the past few weeks. Literally only about being affectionate etc
I’ve been working a lot and tired every day so usually I just want to relax when I get home but she complains I never spend time with her etc.
What should I do? I really can’t force myself to have sex with someone that I’m not in the mood to have sex with.
It's not our fault your mojo's addictive to the ladies, bro. Your dick-fu is just that strong. If you don't have the energy to have sex with her, don't force yourself, no matter how hard she's jones-ing for a hit.
There will be days where she wants intimacy from her man and you'll simply be too tired from your workday to lay down the thundercock. Develop simple ways of showing her some affection that aren't as physically demanding for you as sex. Give her a hug once in a while and let her do the majority of the kissing. You get home from the gym, still sweaty, let her take those long deep breaths. If you're both on the sofa, having popcorn while watching a film, scoop her up, and place her on your lap so she can feed you some popcorn during the boring parts. When it gets to good parts, she'll squirm for release. Even something as simple as spooning occasionally can diffuse that deep psychological trigger in her brain that has her wondering, 'is he really too tired to give me the thundercock because of work, or because he's lost interest and decided to give it to someone else, doesn't he know that he's got what I need!?'
Reach out to us sooner when these problems develop after a few days, not weeks, especially to the married guys who've given you useful advice. The woman you've installed into your home is a female, not a male. You already know that they're wired differently from us, but every so often we'll slack off on that bit of awareness and have to be painfully reminded.
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