If a girl has a somewhat immoral past - not a slut but drinking a lot, lesbian acts, and smoking weed everyday…
You think she can turn into a quality girl if she meets the highest value guy she can get?
As Tyrone would say, "Hell no," and the answer wouldn't change regardless of the man's value. However, the better question to ask yourself is, if you're involved with a psychotic female using sex and weed to deal with her low stress single life now, what are the odds she won't graduate to heroine/cocaine and cuckoldry after becoming a wife and mother?
If a girl has a somewhat immoral past - not a slut but drinking a lot, lesbian acts, and smoking weed everyday…
You think she can turn into a quality girl if she meets the highest value guy she can get?
That comes with a lot of time spent with women.
If you spend enough time doing anything you’re bound to be good
Bottom line is that they don’t like your personality. I don’t know how you act but looks are just a foot in the door. Looks don’t = sex. Looks get the initial interest and personality/charisma gets you sex.
I’d sleep with legit 9/10 of the girls I went on dates with and I image they probably encountered guys that were better looking they didn’t sleep with.
I don’t spend time texting them before a date or after. I’ll text them first once a week when I want to hangout.
I have a girlfriend now tho - way better than sleeping around. Hooking up is such a waste of time, money and energy. Find a legit quality girl and it’s 100x better than sleeping with the hottest chix
I observed the same behavior with chicks from tinder and from IRL. They will give me phone maybe one in 15 will actually go on a date with me. Then one in 10 dates will fuck me. It's incredibly tiresome. They generally lose interest after one or more dates with me. If I fuck them, then they have huge interest in me. I don't message a lot, I message very rarely so I don't seem too interested. I have no idea what to do really. If someone would tell me how to fix this shit, I'd be so grateful.
My dates DO show me affection, but not often. Even those that DO show me affection like hugging me, taking initiative and kissing me will later ghost me. It's incredibly rare though. Pic attached is my body picture. I think it's good enough body for most women, so there must be something else at fault here.
The photos aren't necessary. The problem doesn't seem to be your physique, and I doubt you're got a face that's hit every single branch of the ugly tree. It reads to me like you're generally experiencing the usual difficulties most guys go through with females, but there's something about you turning them off.
That you're getting one in ten to show up is proof you're doing better than the average. I'm surprised you only seem to be getting a majority of one and two hit encounters though. I'd have figured you'd have a good few chicks who would keep your contact information around, if only to keep you as a stallion they stable and take out to occasionally ride. I mean, it's entirely possible that you come off as so high value that these chicks lose confidence in their ability to keep you and refuse to at least try.
@Jocbro's in a similar situation, so he might be better able to offer some insight to your situation, given your current situations similarities to his in the past. I hope he doesn't mind my cc:ing him here on that point. Other then that, best of luck to you man. Sorry I couldn't offer better assistance.
Read MoreThat’s life. Enjoy the small things. Women don’t bring you happiness - that’s for sure. But you’ll have to learn that the hard way yourself
I agree - I’m person I’d do exactly this. BUT nobody has or would say it to my face.
I guess I’ve never been called ugly before. Not to my face, at least.
It just made me feel a bit insecure in my looks but I’ve never had that problem until now.
How to deal with girlfriends friends calling me ugly?
She’s 19 and her friends/couple family members have said that I’m ugly.
She asked if she could go thru my phone - I said sure if I can go thru yours. Then I searched my name on messages and her sister and 2 cousins said that I was ugly. And her mother insinuated it as well.
Makes me feel a little insecure tbh. I’ve never had a problem with women as y’all know.. just a little more personal being here family