@Kloi yes it’s an ego thing. I approach when IOIs are too heavy to ignore but that’s not as common.
How does one overcome approach anxiety? I’ve had it my entire life.
It’s so contradicting since I’ve slept with women in the triple digits. I can NOT cold approach a woman. I only talk to women if they’re majorly checking me out, which is not common.
I think it’s more of a narcissistic trait than a fear that I’ll actually be rejected. Like being rejected doesn’t validate the sense of self I have.
I’ve overcome every hurdle in my life thus far. I would give anything to have the courage to approach a woman, even if it means being rejected
Reads like you're not interested in wasting energy engaging with females, unless it enables you to achieve a goal.
How does one overcome approach anxiety? I’ve had it my entire life.
It’s so contradicting since I’ve slept with women in the triple digits. I can NOT cold approach a woman. I only talk to women if they’re majorly checking me out, which is not common.
I think it’s more of a narcissistic trait than a fear that I’ll actually be rejected. Like being rejected doesn’t validate the sense of self I have.
I’ve overcome every hurdle in my life thus far. I would give anything to have the courage to approach a woman, even if it means being rejected
@Typo-MAGAshiv I have as of late. I’ve met about 5 or so since that post. All liberal. Could be coincidence but I doubt it.
1 i met at a brewery, slept with her night we met - planned a date, 3 days later I confirmed date and she said “I don’t think we’re on the same page. You haven’t texted me in 3 days”
3 others were at bars and one at dog park.
Slept with 3/5, 1 was low interest it seemed when scheduling date and another I wasn’t feeling.
In summary; feminism is great to sleep with women. Horrible for anything consistent
I gotta say, dating is the worst it’s ever been quite likely in human history.
I live in a big Florida city (not Miami) and 95% of women are liberal feminists.
What is even the point? I wish I didn’t feel shame or I’d just get escorts
@redhawkes probably true. I don’t care so much about sex honestly..
I’ve been on over a hundred dates the past year and a half. 50 percent don’t make it past first date whether it be me ending it or them.
Of the other 50% I’d say probably more than half end it with me or ghost me
I figure nothing to lose so I texted 4 girls that ghosted me in past few months and asked for feedback..
the exact answer was related to “I didn’t think you were really interested in me”
Keep in mind I pay for the dates, let them stay over, etc
How can I even overcome this? How do you seem non chalant/not needy while also displaying interest?
I had a girl end it today because she felt more “like friends”. I picture a fat ugly dude when I hear that - I don’t try to sleep with these women or do anything physical until like date 3/4 and only if it feels right. I’m basically not affectionate at all..
Read MoreDating is truly the worst it has ever been - even for good looking, well off guys. (Not to toot my own horn)
Here is a compilation of the past year of my dating life - interested in hearing your guys opinions.
Out of probably 50-60 dates, these are the ones that come to mind. The rest either ghosted me after first date or I just had no interest. No relationship material has come from this. 80/20 dating apps/in person meeting