@Typo-MAGAshiv Definitely fatter than the photos, I didn't recognize her

@fumbor ?

Was she fat? Ugly? Both?

Most dudes just leave as soon as they realize they've been deceived.

@fumbor She obviously just wasn't into you for whatever personal reasons, which is just fine. There's a somebody for everybody, well almost. Don't fret over the ones who aren't into you, keep churning and getting better at finding and attracting the ones who are disposed to be into you. This is the kind of date where you eject early and go do something you find enjoyable, even at home by yourself.

@Typo-MAGAshiv I talked to my dad and he's fully okay with me bringing women to the house as weird as it sounds. We have a big home and a large basement so I think I'll be okay. Though I'd love to have my own place. Also the money thing is kinda going to shit since most of it was in crypto. I'm in uni for Finance so hopefully get an internship next year and will be able to move out. But for now the house will suffice! Thanks for the advice though, a place is super important

@MentORPHEUS That's so true , just have yet to experience this level of it!!! It's like she was asexual. She didnt want to link arms or even touch me. Didnt even want to go in my car, just straight home. I genuinely had to hold 90% of the convo. I'm not even upset it's so fucking hilarious I'm actually amused at how shitty at communication she was!!

@fumbor That's dating for you; business can be much the same too in that you just don't connect to some customers no matter how on-your-game you present yourself to them. It's a numbers game and you just have to keep rolling the dice and trying new prospects till you get a roster of ones who ARE into and connect well with.

There have been and will be women who are into you, but no spark in your heart for them. That's just the way it goes; humans are so varied it's a minor miracle to find one you really mutually click with deeply.

oh and she catfished me too LOLL

Had such a shit first date LOL, actually worse than the man hating chick i saw weeks ago. Had drinks with her, she comes 20 minutes late, talks super quiet, new to the city so I tell her i'd like to show her around and she denies EVERY advance. we keep walking and walking, she continues to deny every advance and barely talks. Tell her my parking is expiring and she tells me she'd rather go home than come where i initially planned to take her. sitting in my car typing this. What a shit date man lmao. This girl..

@Vermillion-Rx I'd advise against pendulum-swinging too hard, @fumbor

You have money, and you'll make more money. Don't be afraid to spend some on worthwhile stuff.

Your own pad is definitely money better spent than a luxury car (especially a crappy, scamming one like BMW).

@Vermillion-Rx seconded, @fumbor

I remember your pics with your BMW.

I drove a Geo and still got laid, because I had my own place!