@Vermillion-Rx by the way. You keep mentioning going to the same venue all the time. Im sure it's great with a bunch of upsides, but keep in mind the pitfalls of gaming in just one place.
@Vermillion-Rx i understand the thought process and the self respect angle, but keeping her will help you get over this emotional hurdle. You have one plate, and it's just more likely to be slow going for you if you need emotional commitment from a woman in order to even keep fucking her.
If the reality was that you had other plates who were more committed to you and you wanted to prioritise them, it would be different.
Abundance and outcome independence over neediness and scarcity. Frame it however you want but this is the core of it IMO.
I’m never gonna be able to go on a college campus and fuck Taylor or Maddie cause they’re wired to be attracted to your typical white
Stupidest shit ive seen for a while. And there's some stupid shit around.
No one strapped them down clockwork orange style in a bid to indoctrinate them into slamming their faces with calories
In a figurative sense this is quite similar to how clown world operates IMO.
know in some capacity that they've chosen again and again to poison themselves,
Agreed, but it's simply naive to expect them to overcome the continuous outside influence and their addiction just from that nagging feeling of guilt and shame. Are they responsible for their actions despite the outside influence of woke culture? Yes. Are they at fault? I dont think so.
Plus. If they are that okay with being corpulent hambeasts im not gonna stand in their way. Free to choose.
The female dual mating strategy at large
This weekend I'd had a few to drink and was swiping through an OLD app late at night. Matched with a very cute 31 year old with what i thought was a genuinely nice profile; perfect for a woman who's hit the wall and wants to settle down and actually have a chance to succeed with that.
She was properly dressed, in shape, feminine and positive looking, nice hobbies. A tidy little profile text that was light-hearted but made it clear what she was looking for. She wants an LTR and kids, obviously.
I dont go for these types of women generally as our goals are unaligned and even though i spin several plates i constantly vet for an LTR.
So i sent her a longer message saying i liked her profile and highlighted some of the reasons, but that i hadn't read her profile text and it wasnt a great match.
Her reply: But we can still sleep together?
One message. Meanwhile i'm sitting there thinking about the AFC's in her inbox trying to be this chick's pen pal. This is a perfect example of women's dual mating strategy in action, on OLD-steroids. This stuff just doesn't surprise me anymore. And the blue pills think we're making this shit up..
And yes, she's DTF. If im gonna hit it i think im double-wrapping this one.
Read More@Lionsmane8 Status is one aspect of SMV (usually defined as the sum of looks, money, status, game). And men really cant judge another man's SMV any more than a woman can judge a woman's.
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@durzo the questions are already answered many times over. The material is in the sidebar, archived posts, recommended books, etc.
It's on you to read and internalize. Specific questions are best posted in the forums.
The answer to your question is to move on and keep improving. If you want a more detailed answer you would have to be more specific.
She keeps in touch as friends with her first bf.
No thanks on that.
He's friends with her parents and family.
Well that's convenient.
She sent him a text yesterday to say about her parent in hospital.
Very convenient.
In her dream she was making out with her first bf
Oh yeah? Surprising.
I don't really know what to do
This girl has put you on the backburner. If she loved you she wouldnt even be telling you shit like that. Dont sit at home feeling sorry for yourself. Enjoy your you-time, and get ready to exit that relationship.
@drake Definitely martial arts. Lots of benefits besides self defence being an essential skill. Pick one that's used in MMA that seems interesting to you and also has a decent gym close by.
@fumbor you increased activity without increasing calory intake to match. Increase intake and the problem is solved.
