There’s also the 3rd option.
Getting in a LTR with a hb 7 with a feminine personality and positive traits.
She adds to your life.
It’s settling done right.
Perhaps, but I know a good few guys who've gone that route and would be quick to warn you that it's not the unicorn harvest you may think. In fact, when my grandfather married my grandmother, a foreigner, it ended with my grandmother filing a Tijuana Divorce back in the 1950's when divorce wasn't legal in parts of the US. Seems my grandfather walked out after she implied my infant mother might not be his kid during an argument.
On the other hand, his brother married a fellow American, they had several children and grew old together. His wife kicked it a few years before him due to complications following a stroke. He was never the same after that and died a few years later. Funny thing is, my grandfather beat out his brother for my grandmother's hand, talk about ironic.
Either way, it really doesn't matter how you locate a mate. The welfare state is hostile to self-sufficiency and independent individual functionality. If you go down the path of seeking a mate, forming a family, and building a household you've got to be prepared to thoroughly vet all candidates before you even consider being exclusive these days, let alone marriage.Read More