carnold03

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

carnold03

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

Alpha-widows in film

...and on her deathbed, her final thoughts would be spent on him, instead of the husband and children she spent the majority of her life with.

#2023 #Humor #Memes #Titanic #Film #ScienceFiction #Clown #World #US #America #UnitedKingdom #SSH

aweawea_

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

but anyways, i think moving out asap is the most important move for a young man imo, i was sush a mess and clueless in my late teens and early 20s, i fucked around doing jack shit way too much , not that i have it all figured out yet but i mean if i could go back, immediately after graduating, i go abroad, save some cash, come back home, find a decent job and already be enjoying life as a 19-20y old and work on learning and building something.

aweawea_

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

sry quoted the wrong person

aweawea_

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

@carnold03 I am in the same exact situation, 26yo too, things weren't working at my previous job, so i quit it and went abroad for 3 months to save some money, i broke up with the LTR while there (we were there together lol), then i came back home, i have a decent bit of cash saved up but no job yet, i am moving out of my parents' the moment i get a job.

It all depends on if you would be spending all or almost all that you'd earn if you move out, if i have even 1/3 or even 1/4 of what i earn left over then thats enough for me to move out.

carnold03

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

@Donny577

When / how did you guys move out? I have the opportunity to move away from home, alone and on my own but with major bills once again. I’m currently at home with my parents after a break up unfortunately. It’s been a year and I have an opportunity to leave. I’d be struggling for the first 3-6 mos. But I think I’d be happier. What would you guys do? I’m 26 btw.

There's nothing to really explain. Like most guys, I worked a job and saved my money. A portion of my saved income was spent to secure licenses and education which would enable me to increase my then hourly income. I was smart about it, in that I avoided taking on student loans or credit card debt. Eventually, I had enough money saved to afford a place of my own, as well as the cost in hiring people to help me move there.

If you expect the first three to six months at the new place to be a struggle, I'd suggest you stay where you are and keep building up your savings for a few more months. Aim to move out in April next year. If you're carrying debt, use this time to apply as much of your income to servicing that debt and revise your plan accordingly.

If being around your parents and siblings is unappealing or stressful, then find other places to be than their home when you're off work. Check out meetup dot com or eventbrite dot com and look for groups through which you can occupy your time for a few hours a week after work before going home. Best of luck to ya.

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Aging-Chad

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

@Donny577 I’m living in an apartment, alone. 3 bedrooms I furnished for my kids but they’d rather be with their mom in their home.

I lost 100k divorcing her and she got everything I wanted. I live every day of my life alone, wishing I never pulled the trigger.

But if I didn’t, I would be asking the same question you are: “how can I be free?”

Freedom is hell. Captivity is hell. Choose your hell, live by it, and die by it.

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Donny577

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

When / how did you guys move out? I have the opportunity to move away from home, alone and on my own but with major bills once again. I’m currently at home with my parents after a break up unfortunately. It’s been a year and I have an opportunity to leave. I’d be struggling for the first 3-6 mos. But I think I’d be happier. What would you guys do? I’m 26 btw.

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carnold03

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

@Lionsmane8

Lol if that isn't a clear sign of the end of a cycle. . .

It's the same old con for a different generation. Today's hookup apps are yester-year's night club ladies night.

Lionsmane8

about a month ago  Red Pill Me

@carnold03

Lol if that isn't a clear sign of the end of a cycle. . .

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