3y ago TheRedPill
How do know if partner cheated early in relationship?
Saw some texts from a guy in the first few months of us getting together. This guy is the same guy she cheated on her ex with. He said he was coming back from Canada and bit of small talk here and there. She said "are you gonna come see me before fucking off again"?
I approached her and she claimed she meant at work. She was sextign with him 6 months before us getting together but nothing since getting together. She would never start the conversation but she would keep it going with questions At one point he said I had a dream about you last night to which she replied " oh tell me more" then he said oh it was a bit naughty to which she either didn't reply to or she deleted those texts after.
I know this is all a bit silly but should I next her? We've been together 2 years now and nothing since suggests anything.
I told her it showed intent to meet up, she said she didn't want to meet but it was for validation, I then said to her how the fuck would I know where you would have stopped for validation. She promised me she never cheated and it seemed genuine but I caught her out in a lie by finding out its the same guy she cheated on her ex with and she denied that before I found out saying it would make you think something bad.
Here's a rhetorical question to ponder. Why are you concerned about receiving loyalty from a female whom you know has cheated on her previous relationships? Reads like you're in an alpha f*cks, beta bucks situation and I suspect you're the beta. Don't second guess your gut with this one. Loyal women don't do things to provoke a man to question that loyalty.
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Read More3y ago TheRedPill
@Fawk_Face cheers brother she tried to make every excuse in the book. She never mentioned me once.
I confronted her and she said she only wanted him to come see her at her work... LMAO.
She kept asking questions where he's living now ND when he's moving back to Canada etc.
Even if she didn't end up cheating. Which my gut tells me she did this is justifiable enough to end it right ? I've caught her snapping exes before but had no proof.
She told me she swears on her ND whole families life she didn't cheat, I take that shit seriously. So it makes me fucking think she could be telling the truth about not cheating.
3y ago TheRedPill
How do know if partner cheated early in relationship?
Saw some texts from a guy in the first few months of us getting together. This guy is the same guy she cheated on her ex with. He said he was coming back from Canada and bit of small talk here and there. She said "are you gonna come see me before fucking off again"?
I approached her and she claimed she meant at work. She was sextign with him 6 months before us getting together but nothing since getting together. She would never start the conversation but she would keep it going with questions At one point he said I had a dream about you last night to which she replied " oh tell me more" then he said oh it was a bit naughty to which she either didn't reply to or she deleted those texts after.
I know this is all a bit silly but should I next her? We've been together 2 years now and nothing since suggests anything.
I told her it showed intent to meet up, she said she didn't want to meet but it was for validation, I then said to her how the fuck would I know where you would have stopped for validation. She promised me she never cheated and it seemed genuine but I caught her out in a lie by finding out its the same guy she cheated on her ex with and she denied that before I found out saying it would make you think something bad.
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