True power comes with acceptance, not boundaries. There is no magical set of characteristics that makes a woman not a woman. There is no magical set of characteristics you can possess or ways you can behave that will make a woman not be a woman. There is no such thing as a permanent relationship or successful marriage, only a woman that today, right now, thinks that being with you is better than the alternative. And there is nothing you can do, no woman you can select, that changes this.