@Typo-MAGAshiv You’re right man. More self improvement is the best way forward.
I don’t think I’m being an orbiter because I let her initiate all communication, keep texts short, and only respond to texts if they have to do with meeting up. This isn’t me being butthurt, but having respect for myself is far more important than chasing a female.
I’m not making the mistake of blowing up her phone, being emotional, and trying to be her number one texting buddy lmao. I have shown the ability to walk away as well.
Don’t get me wrong, despite our tumultuous history, we get along great at work and keep it professional.
I think my best bet is to keep lifting, focus on career development, and focus on building a rotation of a few women?
What do you guys think of all this?
So interesting enough, she texted me last night asking to workout. This is how the convo went…
Her: Hey do you wanna hit the gym tomorrow? It’s my last day off for awhile so…
Me: Sure I’m down.
Her: Ok cool
I didn’t see this as a chance to workout, but a chance to gauge her interest and possibly escalate things.
I didn’t respond to her last message because she has already flaked on plans in the past and I want her to initiate everything.
Did I handle this right? Why would she text me asking to meet up but not really make plans.
Where do you guys think her head could be at rn?
@ChadBigly Thanks for the advice. May I ask why you recommend not letting her workout w me?
Personally I would see this as a way to flirt with her and build sexual tension.
But I can also see why you recommend not letting her train w me, because she has been proven to be inconsistent and all over the place.
So I hung out with this girl at work two months ago. We went for a walk and made out in a park. She initiated all of the making out and kino. Overall, I thought things went well. After that I tried setting up a few dates, and she ended up canceling and rescheduling a few times. Eventually, I gave up and blocked her.
Then I hit the gym for two months and got my squat up to 225 for a 1rm. Out of the blue, nearly two months later we have a good conversation in the break room and caught up. She told me that she doesn’t really see me that way anymore but wants to workout with me. In addition, later that day, she came up to me and told me to unblock her, which I did.
Honestly, I think this news is neither great or bad. Never trust what a woman says, react based on her actions. I think there is a slight amount of interest, but not a great amount at this time.
I would like to block her again, because I still think I need to put in more self improvement if I want to lay the pipe. But I don’t want to look weak.
Should I just keep her unblocked, let her initiate, only text for logistics, and keep looksmaxxing?
Or should I not gaf, block her again, and keep up the self improvement.
All advice is appreciated and I can provide more back story upon request. Thanks.
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