Hey I've question. How much should I chase ? What I mean by that is that where I live girls are scared shitless of being judged so they pull back a lot and are generally shy so the guy has to do almost all of the chasing. That's fine by me but at what point should I accept that she's pulling away not because she wants me to chase but because she isn't into it ?
@DreamExpedite Praise something she can control, or some specific aspect of her, tied to your personal standards not general ones; never offer unconditional positive regard or general praise. Use it as a tool of operant conditioning, not a token you hope she'll redeem for sex/attention.
Bad: You are: beautiful, cute, popular, amazing, sexy
Better: I like: the way you did your face/hair, your ass in those jeans, your figure in that dress, the way you when that guy __
Pro: You're getting better at: specific sex act, cooking favorite dish, mingling with partners' wives at functions
@redpillschool I think it'll be great to engage in conversation, but it'll have some challenges that come with it, for example - multiple questions and multiple answers raging on at the same time Other than that I think it's a really good idea to crowdsource an idea. I should probably incorporate it a bit more into by life
@Exidian Hey Ex! I started off as highly socially awkward and sometimes anxious, so that meant that I needed rules and frameworks to operate upon and to be operated within so that the chances of failure and embarrassment were low enough to be 'safe'. Around the same time I started to see that girls, at least some of them, were naturally attracted to me at first, because of nothing I made an effort to build though, but they quickly lost interest once they actually started talking to me. I also got a girl as a 'best friend' then and she thoroughly showed me how different the two genders had become, and how amazingly and weirdly unpredictable the girl gang was. With the best friend, I also found myself voluntarily in the trap of the nice guy syndrome and it's weird because I know now that if I'd gone for the prize and grabbed it I would've gotten the girl, but I didn't do that. I was too scared to even admit to myself that I liked that girl not as a buddy but as someone I'd like to kiss and touch, that's how much I was afraid of failure. I'd recently gotten on Reddit and one day just found myself on TRP by complete chance - sarcastic comment by some guy mentioning redpill as being dumb was the case I think, and since then it's been a ride. I don't know enough to get by even now but we're gonna get there peeps.Stay hard.Read More