@Hazelstein Yes that does make sense in a way that you've said something which I know to be true somewhere inside, but hadn't expressed it well. That's what I'll do then - invite not chase. Thank you :)

Hey I've question. How much should I chase ? What I mean by that is that where I live girls are scared shitless of being judged so they pull back a lot and are generally shy so the guy has to do almost all of the chasing. That's fine by me but at what point should I accept that she's pulling away not because she wants me to chase but because she isn't into it ?

@DreamExpedite @Redpillschool Another HTML parser glitch? Above should read "The way you (blank/underline) when that guy (blank/underline)"

@DreamExpedite Praise something she can control, or some specific aspect of her, tied to your personal standards not general ones; never offer unconditional positive regard or general praise. Use it as a tool of operant conditioning, not a token you hope she'll redeem for sex/attention.

Bad: You are: beautiful, cute, popular, amazing, sexy

Better: I like: the way you did your face/hair, your ass in those jeans, your figure in that dress, the way you when that guy __

Pro: You're getting better at: specific sex act, cooking favorite dish, mingling with partners' wives at functions

What's the TRP take on praise ? How should it be used, if at all ?

@redpillschool I think it'll be great to engage in conversation, but it'll have some challenges that come with it, for example - multiple questions and multiple answers raging on at the same time Other than that I think it's a really good idea to crowdsource an idea. I should probably incorporate it a bit more into by life