Hi guys I have an urgent question and would really appreciate your thoughts on this. Would you dump a girl you are seeing twice a week for 5 months (still in vetting period) if you found out she sexted another guy 2 months ago?? I have been meeting this girl and quite like her. I slept with her on their first date which is a red flag so wasn't taking her seriously. But other qualifications (religious, low body count, below25yo, family oriented etc.) checks out. Today I pulled the "unlock your phone and hand it to me" thing and she was baffled. 1)She had deleted the sex chat, but I knew the name as I saw it when she got a notification few minutes ago when she was driving. So I just searched the name and found the chat was deleted. I called her out. She said that guy hit her up after 2 months. And she sexting him at that time only(didn't send any pics). 2) 3 weeks ago she told me that she loved me. I went through rest of her contacts and found that she has been recently rejecting advances by other men by telling them that she is with me now.

So this has me confused as 1) we are not in a relationship. 2) she has been loyal since she confessed that she loved me even though I didn't.

I would love to get a 3rd unbiased opinion on this. Keep her or dump her? She is among few girls who have stuck through my vetting. Thanks in advance

Hi guys I have an urgent question and would really appreciate your thoughts on this. Would you dump a girl you are seeing twice a week for 5 months (still in vetting period) if you found out she sexted another guy 2 months ago?? I have been meeting this girl and quite like her. I slept with her on their first date which is a red flag so wasn't taking her seriously. But other qualifications (religious, low body count, below25yo, family oriented etc.) checks out. Today I pulled the "unlock your phone and hand it to me" thing and she was baffled. 1)She had deleted the sex chat, but I knew the name as I saw it when she got a notification few minutes ago when she was driving. So I just searched the name and found the chat was deleted. I called her out. She said that guy hit her up after 2 months. And she sexting him at that time only(didn't send any pics). 2) 3 weeks ago she told me that she loved me. I went through rest of her contacts and found that she has been recently rejecting advances by other men by telling them that she is with me now.

So this has me confused as 1) we are not in a relationship. 2) she has been loyal since she confessed that she loved me even though I didn't.

I would love to get a 3rd unbiased opinion on this. Keep her or dump her? She is among few girls who have stuck through my vetting. Thanks in advance