Do I want to be the person girls cheat with?
Hey, so I have a question for you guys. (I am 18 years old to start with) Recently I’ve started getting more girls after making drastic changes to my lifestyle and behavior etc. my question for you is: Is it good to be the person that a girl cheats with?
Girl 1: A few months ago, I started fucking my best friend who was also a work colleague. I knew that she had a boyfriend but I did not know how serious they were. We had been best friends for like 6 months, and it was always a bit flirty but I was in a happy relationship so I didn’t feel the need to make a move, but then I was close to moving to another city to study, so I just went for it. She was a solid 9/10 and we had sex like 20 times over a 4 week time span, and then I broke contact with her because she was playing with my feelings.
Girl 2: Was a girl I just hooked up with and we had some friends in common. I knew for sure she was REALLY obsessed with me but I wasn’t really interested in her, I thought she was annoying. She also had a boyfriend, keep that in mind. She was maybe a 7/10 and I could definitely fuck her without regretting it but the fact that she was annoying stopped me. Then one day while I was out clubbing with my friends I blacked out and woke up next to her, and we started seeing each other a few times, but since I didn’t really like her personality and she had a boyfriend I dropped all contact for good.
Girl 3: Now recently I hooked up with a girl, solid 8/10 that took a bus 12 !!hours!! to see me, and we had only met like one or two times before. We hung out for the weekend and had a nice time, and now I find out she has a boyfriend that she even lives together with. I really liked her and we pretty much acted like a couple while she was visiting, going out for nice dining and went clubbing and went to house parties together etc.
Is it ok to sleep with girls like this? What does it mean for me? Am I a dickhead if I continue seeing the third girl despite knowing that she has a boyfriend? Obviously I will never commit to anything serious to her, and I know I should probably just drop her but what do you guys think?Read More