Yeah wouldn’t say I am thirsty and I definitely don’t put white women on a pedestal. Most of them are slurs excuse my language. But I hear you man I should have nested the first time and forgotten about it. Once they know you allow them to play games they think you’re a mark. I’ll give the book a read and let you know that’s bro. Btw the Kraut I’m not that interested in as I see the Indian as more serious. But I hear you I shouldn’t let this BS slide.
@carnold03 Yeah wouldn’t say I am thirsty and I definitely don’t put white women on a pedestal. Most of them are slurs excuse my language. But I hear you man I should have nested the first time and forgotten about it. Once they know you allow them to play games they think you’re a mark. I’ll give the book a read and let you know that’s bro. Btw the Kraut I’m not that interested in as I see the Indian as more serious. But I hear you I shouldn’t let this BS slide.
I need your input on this girl. So basically I am 30 years old 5”9 and have a pretty decent body. I have this one chick from India who is super into me and wants to have sex. She’s marriage material and I opened her with intentions to get married in the future. As far as this girl is concerned there are no issues.
Now I come to the other girl. She is German and there was some kind when we met (she slowly caressed my arm with her fingers). We sexted a bit on WhatsApp and made plans to meet on Saturday. We liver pretty far so we chose a location 2 hours away from both of us. She flaked the first time then we said we’ll plan it properly for next weekend. As I was planning to get the train ticket so it’s cheaper I call her and she flaked again saying she has issues with depression and that her son is with her cousin and she wouldn’t be able to focus on me when we meet while her son is away. Something to that effect. I told her it’s okay and that we can meet up some other time, no rush.
Keep in mind we did sext online and she sent me nudes. In my mind I have already nested her since I value myself and have abundance mentality. Have I done anything wrong? What should I learn from this? Anything I can do to salvage the second girl or just wait for her to come around? She’s divorced single mom
What are you, Egyptian? That's a rhetorical question, because anyone here can see that you're working hard on denial. If you'd next-ed the sour Kraut the first time she flaked this posting wouldn't exist. You're just another thirsty brown skinned clown putting "white" girls on a pedestal hoping we could give you some insight into female dysfunction your gut doesn't already have. Here's the tip, chicks who're into you will do whatever it takes to get with you, they will hurdle any and all obstacles in the way. You're just letting the Kraut waste your time, move on.
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Read More@TheHunterGatherer7 this second girl is playing games. I would easily next her after the 2nd flake. She's just looking for your attention. Don't give it to her and watch her flock to you.
You did nothing wrong here except give her a second chance.
@diunilaowei Our prophet Muhammad warned us about these times and these women especially. In his prophecy, he said that women will dress immodestly and their hair will be like that of a camels hair. The bangs women have nowadays lol exactly like the hair on top of a camel’s head. These women lead men astray from God and into Hellfire
I need your input on this girl. So basically I am 30 years old 5”9 and have a pretty decent body. I have this one chick from India who is super into me and wants to have sex. She’s marriage material and I opened her with intentions to get married in the future. As far as this girl is concerned there are no issues.
Now I come to the other girl. She is German and there was some kind when we met (she slowly caressed my arm with her fingers). We sexted a bit on WhatsApp and made plans to meet on Saturday. We liver pretty far so we chose a location 2 hours away from both of us. She flaked the first time then we said we’ll plan it properly for next weekend. As I was planning to get the train ticket so it’s cheaper I call her and she flaked again saying she has issues with depression and that her son is with her cousin and she wouldn’t be able to focus on me when we meet while her son is away. Something to that effect. I told her it’s okay and that we can meet up some other time, no rush.
Keep in mind we did sext online and she sent me nudes. In my mind I have already nested her since I value myself and have abundance mentality. Have I done anything wrong? What should I learn from this? Anything I can do to salvage the second girl or just wait for her to come around? She’s divorced single mom
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