2y ago TheRedPill
Need advice on a situation. Recently reconnected with a girl from high school (I’m now in 2nd year uni) and she’s friends with my best friend (they text but don’t hangout or anything). I didn’t talk to her much in high school. Anyways she’s been telling him about how she had a crush on me forever and all throughout high school. I decided to go for it and ask her out, she admitted to having a crush on me and we got bubble tea and I thought it went well. Afterwards, she calls my friend and tells him that she can’t do anything with me because now shes fucking another guy and doesn’t want to get involved with more than 1 guy, but says how she wanted to “ride my dick into the sunset”. I’m just looking to hookup with her and since she seemed so into me I message her that night and start being flirty with her basically talking about hooking up with her. The next day she admits to me how she wanted to “ride my dick into the sunset” but now she has fwb with another guy so she doesn’t want to, but we can “still be friends”. Obviously I tell her that won’t slide. Fast forward a couple weeks and I snapped her a picture after leaving her on delivered for a day and she tells me I look “sooooo hot” and after mentions how she wanted to ride my dick into the sunset. I basically say “okay let’s do it then” and she responds with “you’d be down to hangout just as friends?”. Now obviously at this point I rnr her , I don’t want to be dealing with this shit, I’ve “soft nexted” her for a few days now. The next day she messages me “did I say something wrong…” then deletes it a few hours later and I leave it on delivered. But all this time since I rnrd her she’s been messaging my friend about how I’m “living in her head rent free” and “every guy at school looks like me” and other shit basically seeming like pretty upset about me not talking to her. Out of the shit that she’s said, she’s seemed very interested in me, more than basically any girl I’ve talked to, but she’s sending really mixed signals. What does she want? Did I fuck up, if so what should I do better with the next girl? And most importantly, is there any point in talking to her again? I want to hookup with her and she definitely thinks I’m really hot and explicitly mentioned wanting to fuck me, I guess I’ve been mogged by this other guy but I still just want to hookup with her at least once if that’s possible, I know it’s nothing serious with this other guy
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